i.e the guys is the one to always call and ask out when the girl just sits there and waits
2006-12-23 03:44:32 · 13 answers · asked by tanner u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought guys enjoyed the chase, that's the fun stuff. If you don't you should tell the girl that she should feel free to call you whenever. We're not mind readers and each guy operates differently.
2006-12-23 03:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl so the reason I just wait for the guys to do something is because maybe they are shy of asking out someone I mean I know that I get too shy to ask anyone out... I have never asked anyone out I have always had a friend do it for me or I wait for the guy to come to me!!
2006-12-23 11:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by panda16_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the past, the males have always been the pursuer, because of how society was set up. Women didn't have any rights or anything, which would have made them lower on a social scale... men were seen as dominant because they were at the top of the social scale and therefore decided which women to pursue and did it. Women were not able to do this because they didn't have the status of men... and after years and years of this happening, it's became a habit even though women are closer to being socially equal to men now. I think it's changing a little, but very slowly...
2006-12-23 12:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....girls are afraid of how the guy will react when they ask them out...like if she really likes a guy but doesn't know if he likes her then she doesn't want to risk losin the guy as a friend by askin him out...some guys just quit talkin to the girl after that....but some girls do ask guys out.
2006-12-23 11:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls don't want to seem desperate, clingy, annoying. and girls don't always know when to call, or what to say, so they wait for you do everything. girls get paraniod about calling guys you know. i had a friend who really wanted to call the guy she liked, but it took her two days to decide to call. and she constantly asked me "what if he doesn't want to talk to me? what if i don't know what to say? is it too soon to call now? what if he's talking to another girl?". girls need to know that you won't judge them for calling, asking you out, whatever the case may be. they want to find a sense of security in the situation, and you need to be able to provide that. meaning...don't make her feel bad for calling so late, don't point out the fact that she's nervous when she's talking to you...anything like that.
2006-12-23 11:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so not true!! well not in my case. in my relationship i had to m ake the first move b/c i never thought he would. i kissed him first and all that and now since we are dating i dont like expect him to pay for eveydate or nething like that we take turns. i actually dont like it when the guy has to do everything. your man needs pleased to so all these girls who think that need to understand that the guy has needs to and its not just about u!!
2006-12-23 11:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls are like that. it only depends which girl you like, right? every girl has their own ways. or most of them, like you said they never do ****, they probably are just SHY, or maybe they think that you should be the man in the relationship. yuppyupp :P
2006-12-23 11:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends now days some girls don't want to seem desperate or too needy. other times they are just shy or uncertain when the appropriate timing is...
2006-12-23 11:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by crystal j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most of the time we like to beleive that were always right
2006-12-23 11:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by manda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...not all girls are like that...if you like someone, let them know that it is ok for them to call you and ask you out...good luck
2006-12-23 11:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋