hey what do you do when you like a guy and you are pretty sure he likes you but when you ask him out he says no??? i mean i REALLY like him and i want to go out wit him REALLY BAD! i dont know what to do because i am really upset now that he said no!!!! plus.... how do you prevent your face becoming red when you talk to a really hot guy you like???
2006-12-23 03:42:36 · 22 answers · asked by pickmyanswer! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't want to go out with you, why are you going to keep at it? You can't force him to like you or go out with you, just move on.
2006-12-23 03:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in this situation is act like you don't even know the guy is alive. You have to show him that you are not fixated on him and that you have your own life. Don't talk to him, don't look at him, when you know he's around laugh and have a good time, carry on conversations with other people and just act like he's not even in the room. If he really likes you he will come around. It eats guys alive to be ignored by someone they like so when you do this more-than-likely he will become more flirtatious with you. Now about your face becoming red, when you talk to the guy that makes your face red you have to imagine that you don't think he is so hot and that he is just another guy. It will calm you down and your face won't light up.
2006-12-23 03:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by JNR3078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you but there may be reasons he said no that you haven't considered. He may be too shy or just not be ready for dating yet. Maybe his parents don't want him on dates yet (guys have rules and curfews too!). Just take it a little slower. Just be friendly and talk to him when you see him- let him get to know you a bit more before you start asking him out .
As for your face getting red. This is a physical reaction that is beyond your control.Talking to the opposite sex gets easier as you get older and gain more experience. There's not too much you can do about it except try to relax!
2006-12-23 03:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by inauspicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for you face becoming red ...thats yourself i guess you can try to control it. But for this guy you have to think about what this guy is to you. Maybe he said no cuz hes not ready to date or hes afarid of realtionships. I find the best person to date is your best friend. Treat him like a friend become very close with him and support him and everything he does ..this will show that you care and support him. Most guys this is what they want but you also have to decide what you want in a realtionship and from a guy before you can do anything. And Dont blame yourself ..if you do that you'll never find a guy.
2006-12-23 03:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get really red when I would talk to a really hot guy but now I have gotten used to it. All you have to do is try and talk to him more that's what I did and it really worked. Now if he said no and you think he really likes you then you could either ease drope, but that would be kind of rude but it is a thought ormaybe when you asked him try and remeber was his face red because if it was that could be a sign that he likes you!! Good luck
2006-12-23 03:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by panda16_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't prevent your face from going red, but if he said no then he doesn't like you the same way you like him. I know this isn't the answer that you want to hear, but guys can be real pricks.
2006-12-23 03:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Katerina Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you don't want your face to become red when you talk to guys!
I mean most guys like this kind of girls......
and if he said "no", then don't go out with him; he doesn't worth you...
2006-12-23 03:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by amorous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow the same thing happened to me.. once when i was really sure this really hot guy liked me.. i asked him out and he said no! i was embaressed to talk to him for a while.. and i ws upset but then later i guess he realized.. that he did like me and he asked me out and we are still goin out now! we are so happy together but hes in california visiting his mom go figure. Yeah and i cannot help you with the face turning red thing! thanks for listenin to my story
2006-12-23 03:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Erin(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there the possibility that you are mistaken about his feelings for you? He may not feel the same way and you are just building up false hopes for yourself. Think about it and make sure he does. Turning red? Not sure what to do about that.
2006-12-23 03:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by RoRo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt stress over it and if he says no ask him why dont seem desperate just ask why u deserve 2 know i mee omg he should at least be man enough 2 give u a reason
well luvz ya alwayz christiana a.k.a twixx
2006-12-23 03:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by christiana p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha you're so funny ! you can't do anything with your face because it's natural when you see a good looking person. well if he said NO, that basically he's not worth your time, get over it because there will be lots of more comming.
2006-12-23 03:46:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋