to leave me alone and that I dont like her without hurting her feelings? Please dont respond with "just tell her you dont like her" because that will hurt her feelings and wont earn you the best answer from me.
2006-12-23 03:27:42 · 11 answers · asked by RT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no need to tell her anything. Just pay no attention to her flirting. She will get the message and will leave you alone in no time.
2006-12-23 03:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start out with this is a touchy subject if you dont want to hurt her feelings. To start out with maybe you need to hook her up with someone that you know that likes her so then she wouls not be heating on her. After all that then you can tell her you dont like her. Or you can ask someone else out then that person can deal with it. Anyway that you go about this you will end up hurting her feelings. So be careful since you dont want to.
2006-12-23 11:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't reciprocate. If you ignore her attempts to spark your interest, she will eventually stop trying. Might take a little patience on your part, but if you really don't want to tell her flat out, then you are going to have to put up with it for a while, until her infatuation wears off. That's really about all you can do. Annoying, yes. But will spare her feelings, and that is what you want.
2006-12-23 11:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie, to save her feelings tell her you're in love with some one already. just ease it into the conversation one day. it'll Let her know she has no hope. if it's a work thing drop hints on sexual harassment. lol not kidding. if it's a school thing try to avoid her at all cost.
2006-12-23 11:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Emmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell her that you don't really feel that way about her but be really nice about it because you don't want to hurt her feelings like you said. I hope everthing works out for you!!!
2006-12-23 11:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by panda16_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok heres an example " Jane ,or whatever her name is umm how about we be freinds best freinds wouldnt that be great!?!" okay i know that sounds really stupid but beleive me im a girl and i think thats the most subtle way to say to some one that you dont like them:)Good Luck
2006-12-23 11:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by XcourttneyyX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. I mean... not plain out flat. something like "You're a great girl, but..." or "You're a cool FRIEND."
No matter how you tell her... it WILL hurt. But the words you use, can lessen the blow. So chose wisely, but keep in mind, she will still hurt.
2006-12-23 11:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Min 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dunno how you can stop her without hurting her ,maybe you can only act seriously when she's around and try to show her that you are not a kind of flirty guy ,when she starts flirting ,you change the subject to something else ..
I hope it will work!
2006-12-23 11:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her u like her... u feel protective like an older brother... u like treating her like a sister.. u always wanted a girl who u can be friends with, without the boy/girl thing!
2006-12-23 11:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by MiZz RuBy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are focused on your future. Compliment her on the good things about her, but that your interests are elsewhere.
2006-12-23 11:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋