Ok. So i set my best friend up with this really hot guy, hes also really sweet. she left to go see her family for like 2 weeks. me and her boyfriend have been hangging out alot. at first it was just like "o lets go see a movie" like because were friends and stuff. but last night i went over to his house and we cuddled by the fire. it was really romantic, it was like love we talk and talk about stuff, just stuff that i dont feel comforatble talking even to my best friend about. like my grandma dieing and stuff. he was tottaly sweet and nice. we ended up spooning really close. it was the most comforatble thing i have ever done with a guy. he held me close and wispered cute stuff in my ear, scrached my back and played with my hair. I feel like im tottaly in love. But hes with my best friend. and part of me wants to think hes a scum bag to do that to my friend, but the other part of me thinks im in love with him im not a home wrecker or a sl*ut this just happend. i have no clue what to do.
2006-12-23 03:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, that makes you a bad friend and him a bad boyfriend.
2006-12-23 03:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing this to his GF now, what makes you think he won't cheat on you?
It's hard because you really like him, I know. But if you had falling in love with him without the other stuff, you would know he could be trusted. Watch out for your girl, he might do this kind of thing again.
You might even want to talk to him about it, maybe it was a one time thing....but it's probably not.
2006-12-23 11:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Milwaukee_Baby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a scum bag. He shouldn't be coming on to you that way. It would be very hard but I would tell my friend if that happened to me. There are planty of guys out there. He probably does the same things to your best friend that he did to you last night, doesn't that make you want to puke? Tell her.
2006-12-23 11:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by domegirl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive had a similiar situation--i have even liked my boyfriends best friend--and we arent together but ill never have a shot with his friend bcuz my ex still likes me. anyway to ur question u have to ask ur self who is more important. Picture 5yrs from now do u c u and ur best friend still friends? do u like that? if yes then u need to concider that b4 taking her man--do u c urself with him very long? its a sucky situation i know u have 2 decide who is mopre important and i nkow u feel envious at ur friend because u set her up with this guy--this is something u have to sit down and evaluate on ur own because only u know who means more and also would she do this to u? and like u said if he did this to your friend would he do it to u? true bhe coulod have just fell in love with u and been willing to risk it but he may have just been lonely. and if he leaves ur friend for u --wat if he still has some feelings for her and cant stay away-wat if he cheats on u w/her? or chooses neither? does ur friend know that bu and her bf were hanging out while she was gone? i dont mean to sound critical but i have been there myselkf and as much as i have liked guys my friends have dated--i always give up my feelings for my friendship--it sucks but karma sum times bringds along something better in return or the guy turns out to be a scumbag and i quickly lose attraction to him and thank god that i kept my friendship--my heart gets stomped on and i end up w/o the guy but i have my friends always!!!! so i hope this helps u and if ya have time please go answer my question because im just as lost as u but on a diff. situation. thanks,
lauren jade
p.s best of luck in ur decision.
2006-12-23 11:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by LAUREN JADE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know the part that thinks he's a "scum bag"? Well listen to that part because if you take up with him you'll be a "scum bag" also. NEVER EVER SPIT IN THE WIND OR MESS WITH SOME BODY ELSE'S MESS.
2006-12-23 11:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he put you in a hard spot girl if you are really in love with him and want to have a family with him tell your best friend if she really is your friend she will under stand and if she does not then she is not your friend
or she is jealous
or its her boy Friends fault for messing around with you
or may you to weer meant to be
remember you weer the one who set them up of maybe she is scared
2006-12-23 11:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Maddie C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wait and when ur frind and her bf break take the chance and ask him out for a movie or somethin
2006-12-23 11:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by jobojo93 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you act on it you're not a friend at all. let them have what they have if they break up in a few years ask her if she'll mind you dating him.
2006-12-23 11:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Emmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell ur friend u falling for her man, tell her da true before she finds out herself
2006-12-23 11:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You trifling hoe!!!!!
You ain't no friend.
2006-12-23 12:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋