Ok. So i set my best friend up with this really hot guy, hes also really sweet. she left to go see her family for like 2 weeks. me and her boyfriend have been hangging out alot. at first it was just like "o lets go see a movie" like because were friends and stuff. but last night i went over to his house and we cuddled by the fire. it was really romantic, it was like love we talk and talk about stuff, just stuff that i dont feel comforatble talking even to my best friend about. like my grandma dieing and stuff. he was tottaly sweet and nice. we ended up spooning really close. it was the most comforatble thing i have ever done with a guy. he held me close and wispered cute stuff in my ear, scrached my back and played with my hair. I feel like im tottaly in love. But hes with my best friend. and part of me wants to think hes a scum bag to do that to my friend, but the other part of me thinks im in love with him im not a home wrecker or a sl*ut this just happend. i have no clue what to do.
2006-12-23 03:20:30 · 14 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your not a very good best friend.
2006-12-23 03:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy has two girls- guy scores, guy has power, girls loose big time.
This one has been asked so many times- who is more important to you?? You will have a lot of guy friends in your life, but how many good friends will you have. The guy will do the same thing to you that he is doing to your friend right now. She must not be that good of a friend if you are willing to loose her and stab her in the back. How will she ever trust you again? Where is your loyalty? I have a best friend, when her boyfriend hit on me when she walked out of the room, I told her. The friendship has lasted decades- the guy just wants to get into as many pants as possible- wake up hon.
2006-12-23 11:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knew what the two of you did imagine how upset she would be. If you feel he is worth losing your best friend, then go for it. Maybe since the two of you are so dishonest the two of you will be perfect for each other. You don't seem to feel guilty in the slightest. Just because it just happened doesn't mean there wasn't a little voice telling you it was wrong.
2006-12-23 11:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem your friend does not have the best friend or boy friend she thought she did. Both you and he made this happen.
If you want to continue having that friend you had better back way off. She will never forgive you for introducing him to her and then stealing him.
He is not at all the boyfriend she thinks she has. You are playing with fire girl. If you continue to be dishonest about this you will loose your friend and her boyfriend. Back off and be honest. Would it be okay with you if she did this with your boyfriend?
2006-12-23 11:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat others as you would like to be treated. If you friend did this to you would you be pissed? If so, girl back off and wait for things to end with the two of them. Then if you are still interested that is another story. I say for now, steer as far away as you can, that situation is nothing but trouble.
2006-12-23 11:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of guy that will screw around with you when he's with anyone else... especially because that "someone else" is your best friend... is not the kind of guy you want to be with... a little scum-baggish. Trust me, and you should tell your friend so she doesn't find out another way, and tell her how he responded so she can make up her mind about him... you wouldn't want her with a scum bag either, right? Respect yourself.
2006-12-23 11:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by just nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you should not do this,did you ever think what will be the feelings of your bestfriend if ever she will knew this.second did it ever crossed your mind that this guy maybe wanted to play with the two of you to wrecked your friendship.and if he can make fool around with your best friend he can also do that to you.COME ON WAKE UP the reality is just there.
2006-12-23 11:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are testing the waters so to speak. For him its like, hey, I see this girl everytime but cant touch her. I almost know her. Shes like an extension of my girl, a substitute if shes not around. I gotta try her.
2006-12-23 11:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the one who hooked htem up?? how could u do that to ur friend?? he is a palyer. what makes u think that if he can do that with you knowing he is with ur best friend then waht do u think he is going to do if u two go ut. he will end up doing the same to u. and what kind of friend are u for doing that behind ur best friends back. u need to tell her so she doesnt end up falling in love and u while u two are hooking up behind her back!!
2006-12-23 11:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Tight situation. But what I believe you should do, is stay back, and let your friend live her life, only do something if you are 100% sure he likes you as much as you like him. You don't want to be unfair to your friend by letting her be with someone that doesn't even like her. But if he doesn't end their relationship himself (or your friend ends it) I advise you NOT to interfere.
2006-12-23 11:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Min 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of your best friend. Like this you could lose both your friend and this guy too. He is just playing with you. cant you see that?? Be away from him otherwise you could land in trouble.
2006-12-23 11:27:41 · answer #11 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋