I love pigtails myself but untill lately I only have been wearing them at home when its too hot because I've always kept my hair in a style to hide my ears as they are really big and stick straight out and totally take over and change the way I look. But my lover loves me in high pigtails so much that I now wear them all the time for him and I just promised I'd even wear them up when he's not around. I'm starting to wonder if he just wants me to look funny so boys don't flurt with me because he's pretty jealous. I went out with two of my girlfriends clubbing the other night and usually I get a lot of attention but all I got just stares while my girl friends got lots of attention. All I got was some drunk telling me I had the biggest ears he'd ever seen. I do love my relationship and really I don't wont boys to flurt with me. Should I just get used to it and try and accept my ears the way they are pigtail for me a crime against beauty and good hair sense?
2006-12-23 03:16:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Sounds like this guy is a bit on the insecure side.
It could be worse than pigtails, though. One of the daily talk shows some time ago (I forget which one) had a show about jealous, insecure guys. One admitted to forcing his wife to keep her hair cut in a military flattop (like a Marine) so that other men won't gawk at her. The theory was that it would make her unattractive (it works to an extent; she has a really pretty face and some audience members even pointed that out). The poor woman was teary-eyed throughout the whole show and even lamenting the loss of her former mid-back length hair. Every week hubby drags her to the barber shop to freshen up her flattop. I'm surprised this woman is still with this man. It revealed a lot of issues going on with her as well.
Anyway, I digress a bit there. The point is that you should be in control of your hairstyle, NOT your significant other. You may have to re-evaluate your relationship and have to look elsewhere for someone accepting of you and not try to change you over his insecurities.
2006-12-23 09:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to wear whatever hair style you feel comfortable with. Your boyfriend should be respectful enough not to ask you to do something you feel uncomfortable with. If he's so turned on by pigtails maybe you could wear them as a "signal" that you're feeling frisky. Wear pigtails at home when no on else can see them. Don't worry about big ears, those people who make comments about your ears are drunk, like you said. Make fun of some unflattering feature on their face.
2016-05-23 01:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a freak maybe talk to him about wearing your hair down and how you don't like wearing pigtails all the time and if he doesn't accept that u want to wear your hair down then he's not worth it
2006-12-23 04:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by softbal094 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends whether you think it's worth it doing this for your boyfriend. Different things turn on different people. Maybe he's genuinely attracted by your ears. If you feel that it's all worth it for your boyfriend, then other people's opinions should not be of your concern. If not, confront your boyfriend and tell him how you really feel. He should be able to accept your decision as it IS your right, after all. If he can't, then you deserve someone better.
2006-12-23 03:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all its your hair and you should wear it because you want to wear them. and not because of your boyfriend, he should like you no matter what with your hair down or up. and so what , who cares if you have big ears. don't let the things people say get you down, half of them don't know what to do in there life but criticize others. forget them, but if you truly want to hide your ears, then wear your hair down, but do it for you and no one else. Have a merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 03:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he probably doesn't want anyone flirting with you. I would just keep my hair down. That's pretty funny wearing high pigtails clubbing. Anyways just do what you feel like doing. Did he change your avatar too? Just wondering.
^_^ Merry Chrismas!!!
2006-12-23 03:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he likes them wear ur hair like that when he's around or when ur in ur house but to go out to a club with pigtails is kinda strange... i probably would have gotten a good look at u myself just to try and figure out if u were really old enuogh to be in the club... whether ur man is jealous or not u don't have to leave your house with pigtails.. if he likes them wear them like that when u two are going to be intimate or whatever but don't go to the club with them
2006-12-23 03:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by ypsilady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to agree with you that you can wear pigtails when he's around
but leave your hair down when he's not.
or just talk to him why he likes you in pigtails so much.
2006-12-23 03:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear your hair the way you want it to be. if he's going to break up with you for that then he wasn't the right person for you. your ears would be just fine. god gave them to you because that is probably what makes you special and different.
2006-12-23 03:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by cutipie_m10 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you under 16 and is he over 40 years old.
2006-12-23 03:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by caveman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋