hi there guys and girls!!!!!!
well here is the thing i know exactly what i am and who i am, and i know what i want now i have been single for about 5 months and starting to think that there might be something wrong with me and that i might not be attractive or even wanted i dont know what to do and feeling very very loneley is this normal
merry christmas everyone hope you all have a good one!!!!!
2006-12-23 03:10:51 · 18 answers · asked by brian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's natural, just stop trying to think on a dating scheme and just go out and have fun with people. Worrying about it is not going to help
2006-12-23 03:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kurt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what you feel is very normal. You didn't say how old you are and that could affect any answer someone may want to give you. However, many people feel llike this at times. Everyone can't be a model and we can't look like them. You sound like you are comfortable with yourself and thats a big plus. I would find a close friend or maybe a family member and discuss this. Tell them what you feel and let them know that you want some feedback. You want to know if you are doing something wrong, or if you are attractive. But be prepared to accept an honest answer.
Being single for 5 months isn't a long time. Be nice, be kind, and be considerate. Someone will be there for you.
2006-12-23 11:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur answer" is in the question
well here is the thing ( i know exactly what i am and who i am, and i know what i want) now i have been single for about 5 months and starting to think that there might be something wrong with me and that i might not be attractive or even wanted( i dont know what to do) and feeling very very loneley is this normal
very stupid to to contradict yourself in that short of a paragraph.
2006-12-23 11:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you are feeling is completely normal, especially at this time of year. I'm sure that there is nothing wrong with you, more than likely something wrong with them. You just have to weed out the bad ones to get to the good ones. 5 months is not that long to be single. Use the time constructively and get to know yourself even better. When the right one comes along you'll know it. Try to have fun with your new singledom. Sometimes weeding through the bad ones can be fun! Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-23 11:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by baby_doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness! Its only been five months! Don't be so impatient, thats what causes hasty and failing relatioships. Take it easy, and make some friends and see if you or they have any interest in a relationship later down the line. Hastiness isn't a good thing, focus on other aspects of your life other than relationships and things will just seem to fall into place. Trust me, I know from experience, and I've been with my guy for almost two years already.
Good luck! and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 11:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by alicodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought i was the only one. Nothing is wrong with you, you are just getting to know your inner self. And when you do that the same type of people you use to attract, you dont anymore. So step your social level up a little bit. go to new and exciting places you felt that you wouldnt be comfortable going to. You are really learning you. I am very happy for you. continue the good work.....every new level their are new people and experiences. Keep walking it gets better!!!
2006-12-23 11:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by The Anointed One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal, its best to take your time and look in all your options. If you go out and get somone just because your lonely it may end up being a very bad thing. Just go out to clubs and parties and just have fun, when you find somone you like just talk easy to them don't go out and say: "your legs must be weak, because you have been running in mind all day", never do that, it makes people look dumb at you. i have been single for 1 1/2. So just take your time in look everywhere.
2006-12-23 11:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by dizzyboyles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to open up more, and get in there, but that is normal! Its okay to be alone though it might be lonely. Sorry about that! At least you have us!
Best of wishes,
*Soccer Fan *
Merry chriatmas and happy holidays!
2006-12-23 11:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it is normal to feel that way. The reason you are still alone is not because of your looks or whatever else you said but instead it’s because you’re focusing too hard on not having anyone. The harder you try to look and find something, the harder it is to find it. Start enjoying life and love will find you. Most importantly, enjoy life because when you least expect it, it will happen.
2006-12-23 11:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Scott8684 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is normal. I have been single for years and Had to deal with these problems. I (not being a doctor) would say you are dealing with a mild case of depression. It should get better in a few days/weeks. untill then good luck.
2006-12-23 11:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋