Well I have guys constently Slap my *** in the lunch line and on the bus and pull me into their lap until the bus startes moving and I cant get out of the seat. I have the guy try yo unsnap my bra when the bus driver isn't looking.
2006-12-23 03:08:30 · 19 answers · asked by Angela R 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
If you really want a guy to stop bothering you, tell them so. We guys aren't very bright about picking up subtle hints. A firm "No" or "Stop that I don't like it" should suffice.
If they persist, go for the groin...you don't actually have to make contact...simply motion to that region and any guy will immediately back away.
As for your attire, as others have mentioned, has nothing to do with it. You should have the freedom to dress in any manner you want without being sexual assaulted.
If the guys continue to assault you, contact the police. I'm sure your local police would like to make examples and send a message to your community that this sort of Neanderthal behavior is not acceptable.
2006-12-23 03:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the bus driver about them and tell someone else to. Are you coming from school? If so you should tell a principal or a teacher about these problems. If you're coming from work then I'd suggest telling an adult who you trust and ask them for help with the situation. Also tell your parents or guardians about the situation.
If these guys persist let the authorities know and when they do that kind of stuff yell and scream and make a huge scene! Make sure everyone on the bus knows that these creeps are bothering you and that you need help.
2006-12-23 11:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lacking Daisies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult or the bus driver-even a counselor or a teacher at school! The reason they continue to do these things because they know they can continue to get away with it!!!!Put a stop to it now!That kind of behavior is inappropriate for someone to have to deal with and it gets old real fast!!! I'm sorry boys are such jerks...but put them in their place honey,with the help of an adult...sometimes you have to go to an adult for help with problems like these-Good luck and have a Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 11:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most buses now have cameras on them to record everything that goes on on the bus. I would talk to the bus driver and let them know what is going on so he/she can watch the video to see for themselves what's going on. If it doesn't stop then I would talk to the guidence councelor. Lunch rooms also should have cameras. Talk to your favorite teacher about that. No girl deserves to be treated that way! Good luck!
2006-12-23 11:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got 2 choices:
1) Report them to either your parents / guardian / school teacher, etc
2) Or as half the girls I went to school with would be liable to do, just whack 'em in the nuts a few times 'til they learn doing that isn't such a good idea.
2006-12-23 18:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report them to school andministrators and tell your parents. All of these incidents are taking place at school or on school property (like the bus). What is happening to you is considered sexual harassment, and every school should have policies in place to deal with this.
2006-12-23 12:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by gdglgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a police officer or someone who can tell a police officer. Slapping a rear and pulling a bra strap is considered illegal because it is painful, embarrassing and is considered sexual harrassment. Warn them to stop and then proceed to tell someone about them harassing you. Do not let others bully you.
2006-12-23 11:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by always under siege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time they touch you yell "Stop" really loud. Make sure they know your angry. If they don't stop yell "rape" out loud. That should get the bus drivers attention and maybe scare them a bit. You should also tell an adult.
2006-12-23 20:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by carmieaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll i am in the 8th grade and i go to a bad school alot of drugs and stuff but u have to show them who u are and stuff slap them punch them what ever it take and if u do that then they will leave u alone because they no that u will hurt them worsebut if it keeps happening report :)
2006-12-23 15:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by sissybng312027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone. Tell your parents! Are you crazy, or do you enjoy it, because if you haven't done anything by now...
Well, anyways. Tell your parents, they'll surely help you. Talk to the Principal. You can take legal actions against them for sexual harassment!
Good-luck.
2006-12-23 11:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by Min 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋