My cousin(who's like a bro)joined the marines & b4 he left i told him we had 2 hang. Hanging w/him meant hanging w/2 boys he had joined w/.These friends were great & dis is a long story but 2 sum it up--the cutest one had a gf--he flirted w/me some-then later they broke up and he started flirting ALOT!! Needless to say-i fell 4 him & i cant explain Y but ive never liked a guy so much/so soon b4-he kept making me like him and bn so sweet i even had shirts made for the guys and got a kiss on the cheek from "him"--it sounds small but it meant so much because he hadnt tried to "get with me" --i felt like i meant more than a hookup to him-he got back w/his ex b4 he left tho-he didnt talk 2me wen he came back the 1st few times but yest, he hug'd me &asked me how i was-it was genuine-he flirted& gave me HIS LOOK-1 dat says a 100000 words & makes me melt. i thought i was ovr him but im not-i cry'd aftr he left & now im cry-n again. do i tell him how i feel? btw he still has a gf.
2006-12-23 03:07:49 · 8 answers · asked by LAUREN JADE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy and i didnt hook-up he never tried it seemed like he wanted to take his time then it was like he got scared becasue we didnt have more time and he wanted someomne to write to and have waiting for him so he got back with his ex who he dated off and on through high school for 3-4 years. i have tried talking to my cousin and asking if he thinks that his friend likes me but nhe doesnt say much he tells me not to worry and that he is a marine so his gf and i should give it up--i dont want to hear that, this hurts like hell--ive never fell for a guy at my age --i never let myself but i cant control this--i keep trying to move on and when i think i have there he is or he makes me feel it all again. i dont know what to do
2006-12-23 03:46:51 · update #1
Also he leaves again jan. 3rd and may not be back for 2 years--i know this and i would still wait for him. I have never before been willing to give up my being single for this long and give myself to someone i have been the single girl who cant wait to go to college next year and meet new guys and live for me and do what i want and i feel like i could finally give all that up right now for this guy. i dont know why i like him sooo much i cant explain it there is just sooo much said when he looks at me and i want to believe that he likes me but bis scared to start something new when he is leaving and that bhe is just with this girl because he knows she'll be loyal (he thinks she will anyway) AND ITS SECURITY. i really love him and this may be my first time IN LOVE but idk i cant say for sure that i am and i cant say that i am not. HELP ME PLEASE
2006-12-23 03:54:25 · update #2
just be friends with him and see how that works out first
2006-12-23 03:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As harsh as this may sound, I think you should just move on. This guy obviously doesn't deserve your time. If he really had feelings for you he wouldn't have gotten back together with his old gf. He would have gotten with you. He was sort of a jerk to you as well, which totally makes him lose points!!
If you tell him how you feel it may actually make it worse for you. He got back together with his ex for a reason, so maybe you should just leave it alone. Plus, if you tell him and he doesn't feel the same way back it's just going to make it that much harder for you. I hate to say it but you may have just met him at a vulnerable period in his life and that's why you two ended up hooking up. Also, the boy could just be a natural flirt sadly.
Keep your head up... a better guy will come along that will definitely deserve you and treat you better than this guy. Hope this helps!!
2006-12-23 03:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyy thanks for ur answer! ur sooo right. ok u have a bad situation, alot like mine, but not really, but anways, scence he has a gf then you have to be carful about it, make sure that he is 100% in to you before you do anything, play hard to get, if he really likes u he'll dump his girl and be with you. you sound like a tottaly great person. im sure u'll both make the right desision.
Good Luck!!!! (: & happy holidays!!!!!!
2006-12-23 03:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him ask him why he never asked you out. Be prepared for him to say he never thought of you that way, but I think he'll more likely say something like he never thought you'd go out with him.
Good luck
2006-12-23 03:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by markawfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course if you're taking seconds he's back with who he chose to be his girlfriend.
Good luck; you seem to be strong headed---as it goes in the military 'second in commend. You will be alright.
2006-12-23 03:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by midavasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a relative, that could be danger. If he had a boyfriend, then like him as a friend, no more no less.
2006-12-23 03:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by slvrwoods 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure!Express yourself!Honesty is the very best policy!
2006-12-23 03:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by baby_gail68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus b friends w/ him den c how it wil work out........if it works out wel u can start flirtin w/ him or jus tel him dat u lyk him......c how he wil act....den mayb he wil ask u out!
2006-12-23 03:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋