2006-12-23 02:59:15 · 32 answers · asked by xobeccaxo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A word of experience. There isn't much you can do. It makes for a lot of pain and most of it is yours. Anything anyone at this time can say, just won't help your pain. To say......get over it or move on is easier said than done. After all you just lost 2 people in your life that mattered, how could you not feel hurt. Being a mom and grandma of girls, I've have seen a lot of it.
Just take your time and surround yourself with people that really care. Time does heal all wounds, sometimes it doesn't seem so.
Good Luck and our hearts are with you thru the pain.
2006-12-23 03:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them both the finger, head to the gym, work out for months, and make him wish he didn't leave you.
At the same time, find some new friends. I can't beleive your best friend would do you in like that. Screw her!
And lastly, upgrade your man. After working out, the quality of the men should go up too. Making you very happy.
Remember, it's not the end of the world, but betrayal sucks!
2006-12-23 03:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is going to be natural for you to feel bad, really bad, about this for a few days, and that is unfortunate with Christmas on our heels. But you can make an effort to feel better, and not let the actions of your boyfriend and best friend rule your Holiday mood. They are very little people in my opinion and not worth your time. Try to pull yourself up from this situation, like pulling your foot out of deep mud. It won't be easy, but acting like it doesn't bother you is the best defense. It will drive them crazy!
2006-12-23 03:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Charles & Elizabeth C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that neither was a very good friend for you, grieve some, and start circulating.
Don't blame the next one for the last one.
It is not your fault. Don't punish yourself!
There ARE decent people.
Get counselling ASAP.
You need to talk it all out.
Good luck.
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 03:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY!!!!!!! Stay friends with both of them...it's not ur friends fault who becomes attracted to her and ur boyfriend probably just saw all UR good qualities in ur friend and so he liked her... but why stop being friend swith both of them when you could have 2 best friends, who knows u better than ur (ex)boyfriend and ur best friend? now u will have 2 ppl to talk to and you come out looking like the bigger person.
2006-12-23 03:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lexsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It's always difficult the first few days or weeks, but eventually the pain will diminish and you'll be able to feel normal again. There are far worse things that can happen, believe me.
2006-12-23 03:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both and move on. Who needs friends like that!
2006-12-23 03:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF, you are Truly in the 7th Grade, there is NO BIG CONCERN!
Boys will most of the time BE AS FICKLE AS GIRLS! IF he left so quickly for your Best Friend..... YOU need to get another best friend, THAT IS UGLY! [that was a JOKE?]
Thanks, RR
2006-12-23 03:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For thing, don't think of her as your "best friend" any further. If she really was, she wouldn't have let him come to her so easily. Secondly, find someone else to be your boyfriend.
2006-12-23 03:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he was your boyfriend at the time when he started messing with her, he's not really worth dwelling upon and she's not much of a friend.
Ignore them both and move on. It might not be easy, but you can get there.
2006-12-23 03:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by tamara_cyan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋