Is your guy right to put conditions such as that on your relationship? Can he tell you never to speak to a particular person again if you want to stay together?
Guys, do you do that? Why?
2006-12-23 02:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by confused_kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends. He wouldn't stop me from seeing my best friend or a family member. Do you think being with him is worth losing that other person?
2006-12-23 02:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf told me that and i told him to jump in a lake that i would talk to whoever because i am not doing ne thing wrong i am just talking. They say things like that because they are jealous and selfconscience so just be careful cuz if u let him talk and control u now he will continue and it will only get worse. then before u know it u have no friends but him and then what happens if u 2 break up?? then u are all alone. but good luck
2006-12-23 02:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. I just went through this in my relationship.
He said I could not have guys call me (just guy friends)
yet he expected to be allowed to have girls call him? no no no
Make sure whatever the conditions are, they are equal. If he doesnt want you to talk to a certian guy, then tell him he can't talk to a certian girl. That will probably loosen him up and he'll let ya do what you want because he doesnt want restrictions on his freedom.
2006-12-23 02:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, is this some one that is just a good friend, or some one who is a wink wink "good" friend. if he is just a friend then no, its not right, but if he is more than a friend then yes i would agree that to have a good relationship you shouldnt talk to this person.
2006-12-23 02:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes trying to control you . i would put a stop to that real quick.it will only get worse later. i had a guy like that i know.
2006-12-23 03:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex said that to me. thats not what ended our relationship but he did say that to me. it all depends on who your talking to. my ex was talking about my other ex. but i cant determine if its right or wrong. you didnt really say who he said you cant talk you. to me it seems like your trying to make your boyfriend out to sound like a dick.
2006-12-23 02:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just went through the same thing - i'm single and happy now.
good luck!!
is he italian?
2006-12-23 02:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe he can. & you should listen to him if you care for him. He has feelings too, you know.
2006-12-23 03:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its wrong
2006-12-24 00:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋