I am 55 and had a complete hysterectomy in July. I almost died from pulmonary embolism after.
Since then I have lost my libido, I am unhappy, emotionally shutdown, I say mean things I don't even mean. I hate this new me!
Am I depressed?
2006-12-23 02:44:40 · 12 answers · asked by beachie51 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It is not the season to be depressed Beachie, snap out of it and join the merriment.
Merry Christmas to you!
2006-12-23 02:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, are you on hormone replacement therapy? Have it checked. Do a complete blood work up, and talk to your doctor.
I would suspect that there is an emotional issue too, that you are now looking at your age and wondering what your purpose in life is, where before it was to have children and raise a family. Hon, I am right behind you in age and had a hyst. too. I know that it takes time to adjust to the new you, but that you are still a whole woman and are of great value. What do you like to do so much that you forget the world around you? What did you want to do when you were younger and did you do it? Now is the time to sit down with paper and pencil, and with prayer, focus on your purpose. Make a plan. What wisdom can you give from your life experiences, to others in need? You have a lot to GIVE, and someone needs you.
2006-12-23 03:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and very angry from the sounds of it. I grew up dealing with depression, so I know roughly how you feel. Usually when you suffer through an ordeal like what you been through depression comes along. It is normal. I think what would help you the most is doing any activity that takes your mind off things. Sitting around thinkng on it all the time never helps. When your mind starts to think heavily on what is bothering you, just get up and find something to do that you enjoy. It may only help for a few minutes, but over time that few minutes grows to several minutes, then hours, then days, etc. This helps because you are not as stressed and now when you think it will become easier for you to come to terms with what has happened to you. Thats what it seems to be the problem to me. You are angry about what has happened to you. And most important, GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE!!!! You have been through the hard part, now it is time to enjoy your life. And yes, I know it is not as easy as I made it sound. It takes a while. Maybe find a support group with people who have the same problems as you. It always help to talk to people who suffer like you do. After dealing with your problems, the other things like loss of libido and meaness to others will fade. Hope this helps, and good luck.
2006-12-23 02:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Chris L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No darling you're just recovering from a really tough time. Don't worry you'll be fine. The hormonal changes and physical stress has drained your strength. Now you just need to take the time to recover. Get yourself a bike and go for a ride. Walking in the neighborhood is great too. Enjoy the sights. Watch people and be happy for them. Don't focus on your feelings as much as others. When you see someone else happy, be happy for them. Don't take any happy pills, they will only prolong the resolution of your feelings. The more you keep your heart rate up, the more you will lose those bad feelings. And if you slip and hurt someone just try and make it up to them.
P.S. Hormone replacement therapy may be ill advised. Get lots of second opinions before taking anything.
2006-12-23 03:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by FreeRadical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are suffering from depression or not, something is not right in your body. Your horomones are out of sorts because of the hysterectomy. Your emotions are out of sorts because you were just forced into menopause and then almost died. The symptoms you list are certainly symptoms of depression, but only a doctor or psychologist can truly diagnose you. I have been there and I know how scary that feeling can be. I also know how difficult it can be to seek help, but it seems like you truly want to. Please see your doctor or a mental health professional.
2006-12-23 02:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by dreamery412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens a lot after a hysterectomy...You have to change your life now...Eat healthy, start doing things that you normally wouldn't do...Try new things out...Get a new style...You are a new woman and you need to keep yourself happy...Start within yourself...If you don't make yourself happy, then who will..
Pamper yourself, get your toes and nails done, get a new hair cut, go shopping and relax...Have lunch by yourself...Throw a party...Good luck you can do it!
2006-12-23 02:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have right to be depressed after you have been through. But now it is time to get better. See a dr. Why sticking to such mood when you have a chance to feel better?
2006-12-23 03:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by lateine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-23 02:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Rawr! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should talk to a therapist about this or maybe you will die of commiting suicide.
2006-12-23 04:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by John R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, seek help very very soon
2006-12-23 02:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by chetahbill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋