2006-12-23 02:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by someoneyoudontknow 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
mine are killing me these past few days. running out of ideas of how to stop the arguing all the time. suppose theyre all just over excited for christmas.
2006-12-23 02:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by fanlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out!!!!! This will never work and your seeing what kind of mother she will be so you know you don't want to have a child with her. She can't or won't honor her commitments of the financial area, and your all ready seeing she goes spending crazy even though the money was suppose to pay bills. Not allowing for you to have the milk you want is only there start of you can't do, can't have. I don't care how beautiful she is, she could be the best sexual partner you've ever had, but that isn't going to be enough to make this work. Cut your losses and run. This will be better for you and for her and the kid, they need someone who will adore the kid no matter how spoiled he is and won't worry about the bills and milk. I'm not sure where she'll find him, but it isn't you.
2016-05-23 01:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was an only child, so I never had anyone to argue with. Right now my 7 year old is crying because her 11 year old brother is picking on her. I have 3 girls, and 1 boy, and when my son is out with his friends, the house is soooooo quiet. They are driving me a little nuts, and Christmas has nothing to do with it...they are like this all the time.
2006-12-23 02:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!! My kids are the exact same way! They fight over the silliest things! However, we have a new rule. If someone is not hurt or bleeding they have to figure out the argument on their own. You know what? It works. They always sort things out just fine. My older one usually does the reasoning, but at least I don't have to try and make the decision as to who is right or wrong and I don't come off as the bad guy to one of them!!!
2006-12-23 02:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by MommyX2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids will be kids and that's the way it goes. It's all part of the territory. Remember tomorrow they will be all grown up and be pulling out their own hair and the last laugh will be yours. All kids fight and yes mine do the same.
I made things more relaxing for myself by telling them up front that I expect them to fight and argue, yet they must show respect to one another at all times; for a family without respect is not a family.
2006-12-23 02:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A parent's "job" is to teach our children how to resolve conflict.
A book I really like on this topic is, Siblings Without Rivalry.
Depending on the age difference, teaching them to work out their conflicts with one another is setting the stage for them to deal with conflict outside the family.
Don't just sit there and go crazy, learn about how to teach them to deal with their conflicts.
Nobody said it would be easy, but I know from experience that it can be done without shouting, hitting, and a bunch of chaos.
2006-12-23 07:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by jwright2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kids do that to me all the time, it's really hard preparing sermons around my house so I spend alot of time at my office doing it. I will look forward to grandparenting because that will be my revenge, spoiling my grandkids and sending them home to mom and dad to deal with so parents there is revenge in old age. LOL
2006-12-23 04:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my kids fight all of the time and it is over the smallest of things. It is frustrating. But, when thinking about it I fought with my little brother constantly too.
2006-12-23 02:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they do. Sometimes I drive them crazy too. We're all people with different personalities and different needs. It's hard to have patience sometimes. But one day they'll be driving and never home and you'll wish they were home fighting.
Carpe diem
2006-12-23 02:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have kids, it is destiny they will drive you crazy. Mine oldest is 25 years old, married and has his own son now. I just remember he gets paid back for all the times he drove me crazy. I just sit back, watch the show and enjoy.
2006-12-23 02:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your kids will drive you crazy but you need to find something fun for them to do with you as a family teach them right from wrong don't show them your weakness.
2006-12-23 02:36:10 · answer #11 · answered by sweetgraciesmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋