I really fancy this girl. I am training with her at present as part of our jobs for the next 5 months. I think she likes me but im not 100% sure. When she texts me her texts are always really nice. I gave her a lift home one night. She txt me to thank me, told me she really enjoyed talking with me and hoped I have a great wekend. She always ends her txts with xo but im sure that is a girly thing to do anyway. If I txt her she always txts back quickly, even if shes busy. A colleague brought her baby into work yesterday and the girl I like was watching how I was around the child and asking if I like kids. She asked me loads of different stuff and tells me alot about her. Things that she wouldnt quickly share with other people at work. We had a Christmas do last night and I sat chatting with her for more than half the night. We walked back from the club together to the hotel our group was staying at with arms linked.
2006-12-23 02:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has a boyfriend but the relationship is not good apparently. She never ever talks about him. He called her last night and she rejected his calls. She doesnt live with him or anything. I think a breakup is on the cards.
I know the only way I can find out if she likes me is to ask. But I dont want to make her feel uncomfortable at work. Also I know what it is like for someone to fancy me and me not fancy them. Her friend at work fancies me and I cant stand her. She makes me feel very uncomfortable but I make it pretty clear I dont feel the same way. How can I approach this. At the end of 5 months we will be working in different locations. Im thinking of waiting til then and just asking her straight.
2006-12-23 02:20:26 · update #1
It sounds to me that if you tell her you like her, she won't be uncomfortable at all.
That being said, be very careful of Office Romances. There's very little middle ground here. They either work out beautifully, or enf horribly. Make sure this is something you really want to pursue.
2006-12-23 02:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is a professional relationship, I would say take it very slowly. Let her know that you have feelings for her that aren't professional and that you are hoping she feels the same way, then also tell her that you don't want to upset the current relationship that you have. Don't do this over texting or at work though. Ask her to dinner, or lunch and do it there.
2006-12-23 10:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She OBVIOUSLY is interested. She's giving you "signals". You want to let her know that you like her? Ask her out! Ask her out for coffee. It's a great chance to chat and it's a mini-date. If things go well, ask her to dinner! If that goes well, send flowers the next day and tell her how much you enjoyed the evening. Believe me, by then she'll know.
2006-12-23 10:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can try doing something really sweet like, in a txt u could put: U + ME +MOVIES FRIDAY = ? or you could just ask her in person. let the relationship evolve for just a while until you say "i love you" because then she might get scared. good luck man! have fun and be yourself around her! she should like/love you for you!
2006-12-23 10:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by elphie44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communitcation. keep it up keep talking to her and soon enough the feelings will be come clear. ((it seems to me she already has take a liking to you))
hoppe it helps!
im here to tlk any time any ?s you can ask me i am not 100% sure i can always figure an answer but illl try my best and not jusr for you any one else who reads this feel free to ask me anything
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Brittany
2006-12-23 10:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~iTS BRiTRT BABE >3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa put the breaks on, your taking friendship to a different level, might want to slowly persue this, but remember she maybe a friendly lass
2006-12-23 10:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask her how she feels about you . invite her to the cinema if she says yes you are on your way.
2006-12-23 10:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by graham l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, this chick has a kid. you know what that means? well if you dont, it means damaged goods. get ready for parenthood and father a child thats not even yours. good luck
2006-12-23 10:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well seems like she likes u too.... go a head tell her u like her.... tell her u like her a littl more than a friend
2006-12-23 10:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋