i like this guy and i have the feeling he likes me back. now what do i do if i ask him out and he says no??? how should i ask him out. i'm only 12 and this is agrivating. HELP ME????!!!!!
2006-12-23 02:12:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh take a change lol who knows I'm Ur bffl if he says no u can cry on my shoulder!!!
2006-12-25 16:02:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are only 12, there are going to so many more people that are going to come into your life that give you answers that your not going to want to hear. but, just go and tell him that you have liked him for a long time and wanted to know if he would go out with you. if he says no, then just say OK, just thought i would give it a try. then walk away. but if he does say no you can still talk to him and say hello in the hall. who knows maybe he will end up liking you later or he may like you now but he said no because you put him on the spot.
2006-12-23 02:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. You will never really know how he feels unless you hear it from him. Just tell him you would like to talk to him. What have you got to lose. If he rejects you so what. Your only 12 you still have plenty of time to talk to guys and date them. Before you know it you will have more guys then you will know to do with. Take it slow. What's the rush. Enjoy yourself. And whatever you do don't settle down with anyone for a while. Kick back and hang out with your friends. Have Fun.
2006-12-23 02:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm 12 too.
i liked this guy and i told my best friend to ask him if he liked me.
he said yes and a couple of days later (a day before the weekend) i asked him the following sentances: (in the exact same words):
a couple of friends of mine are going to the mall tomorrow to go to a movie. do you want tocome and invite some of your friends to come too?
and then he said:
sure
it was the best day ever!
and here is another idea that i tried too.
i asked some people to come to my house to play spin the bottle.
and i got my first kiss from him!!!!
you can email me if you ever need more advise on 12 year old stuff lol!!!! erqtdancer@yahoo.com
2006-12-23 02:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, at 12 yrs old you shouldn't be asking anyone out. Wait until you're about 16 to deal with boys.
2006-12-23 02:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that HE SHOULD ASK YOU! that's his job because he is the guy. if you ask him out, then he might think tooo lowly of you. well, he might have feelings for you too, but you have to be sure first right! if he really likes you, then he would ask you out. i advice that you wait for him to ask you out--and if he does'nt then you should just look for someone else because he is NOT WORTHY of you and your feelings for him. i'm only 13 and i think that you should just wait for him or any other guy to MAKE THE FIRST MOVE in a relationship and Not you. Guys respect girls who respect themselves and others and they like girls who are "hard to get" more than "flirty" ones so just act dignified and be yourself. don't forget to put God first in everything (believe me He helps). if you need advice, then pray to God because you can trust him. Good luck to you and i wish you all the best. Take care and God Bless! Advanced Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 02:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Thug Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hun, first take a deep breath. Next walk up to him with major confidance, guys love a girl with confidence, then just ask if he would like to hang out some time. Good luck!!
2006-12-23 02:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by me:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him out (it shows him you brave and unlike many girls dont throw the burden of asking to the guy) Even if he says no, you have to realize that everyone faces rejection
2006-12-23 02:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r 2 young
2006-12-23 02:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by xoxoLove Hurtsxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 12years old. Slow down young lady. Stop chasing boys and get yourself absorbed into your studies. Boys like smart girls. you have plenty of time to worry about boys. In a few short years. God bless****
2006-12-23 02:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if shes 12 ...get yoohr friend to ask him out thn if he says no tell him yooh didnt like him n yoohr m8 woz tryin to set yooh up coz she fot yooh wood make a cte cupple
this way yooh wont get pownded on by anyone
good luck xxxx
(im 13..jst)
2006-12-23 02:37:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋