If you think are really in love, but the person does not seem to answer your feelings
What is the best to do? Move on and ignore the feelings you have or stay and try
to give a try to these feelings?Is it easy to ignore feelings and move on with life and find peace?
Or is better to stay and try to show to this person you do care about him and try get your chance to experience these feelings?
2006-12-23 02:09:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's called unrequited love..it's pointless
2006-12-23 02:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told and shown the other person how you feel and they do not return those feelings there is very little that you can do. if it is clear that you have feelings that are not shared by the other then you must do your best to put those feelings aside and go on with your life. why would you stay trying to prove your love and begging for any small scrap of affection. That is nonsense. Stop it forget this boy and get into your schooling or your job or get a hobby so that you occupy your mind and have no room or time for thoughts of this guy. Soon you will wonder why you thought you deserved to be the one running after love. Let love come to you, there is some guy out there who is gonna return your feelings in spades and you won't even remember this guy's name. He can't see that you are a gem? His loss and don't dull you glow on one who said NO.
2006-12-23 10:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are in the same shoes, its really a sad feeling if there is no reciprocation.
In my case, he's my next door neighbor just moved in several months ago. The first time I saw him, i was really attracted to him. He's a nice guy but the sad thing here is, he has a girlfriend and as neighbors we are just an acquaintance, casual hi and hellos. If you have the guts to tell him how you feel, then do it, you'll never know....dont be like me. doing nothing.
2006-12-23 11:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he may be great but, there is someone out there who will just look at you and fall deeply head over heels in love with you. Just be patient. Keep in mind the harder you look for something the harder it is to find so enjoy life and love will happen.
2006-12-23 10:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Scott8684 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you try a bit harder to let him know of your feelings. Guys are stupid (at least i think they are)...
they need alot of pushing before they start reacting... get him alone one day, seat at a quiet cafe or anywhere quiet... start by talking abt things then at one point, tell him "how abt this let's get together?"
see his reaction, if he seems a bit lost. then tell him that he dun need to answer you immeidately... think it though and reply you again... it's ok if he dun feel the same way... you just tot that u two can work it out...
at least you try & do smth.... instead of assuming...
i'm planning the same thing myself... wish us both luck!!
2006-12-23 10:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by ahbahh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If the feelings aren't mutual why waste your time.
2006-12-23 10:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and find the right person.But before, be sure about that.Ask him directly what feelings he has about you.
2006-12-23 10:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it's time to move on. You can't make someone love you.
2006-12-23 10:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
action,i really liked u.if no mean just be a good friends loh!
2006-12-23 10:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on for sure - it's just torture
2006-12-23 10:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋