It was only 1 night and she told me the next day. She still wants to be with me as she says it.
2006-12-23 02:09:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get tested for syphilis and gonorrhea Tuesday. Don't have sex with anyone for 6 months, when you can get tested for AIDS. I don't know what the incubation period is for herpes - ask your doctor. Get tested for it when appropriate.
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2006-12-23 02:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would move on.
But frankly, you are defending her by giving us her excuses, "It was only 1 night", and then telling us what she wants. So if you're content to be her lapdog, or she's just got some overwhelming attraction you can't live without, then stay.
But I suggest you 2 go to some kind of counselling to find out what the problem is in your relationship that caused her to cheat. You may find it was not an isolated event.
Good Luck
2006-12-23 10:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about what happened, find out how many times she cheated and why she did it. She might just be feeling insecure about herself and she needed some reassurance, or maybe she is just not for you. If you feel like you wont be able to trust her again then you need to leave, trust me if you cant trust some one even a little then its not a healthy relationship. But building trust again can take time so if you feel its worth it hang in there. Good luck!!!!
2006-12-23 10:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by me:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you can forgive her then go on with the relationship. But You have to really forgive her. You cannot hold it against her.
If you feel like every time you fight with her you are going to bring this up you need to break up with her. if you feel like you are not going to be able to trust her when she goes for a "girls night" you need to break up with her.
If you do decide to stay with her there will be some trust issues. Do you feel like she can ever earn your trust back? if the answer is yes and you can forgive her then stay with her. However if you feel you can never trust her again then you need to walk away.
2006-12-23 10:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and move on. Cheating is the ultimate disrespect. She doesn't respect your relationship enough so leave regardless of what she says.
2006-12-23 10:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open your door right now. Keep it close to her and have her value the relationship. If she wants to work it out, she must prove it to you. The trust value is gone so she has to gain it back.
2006-12-23 10:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by SemperLeader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there had that done to me. As a guy thats been there I say lose her now and move on. once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-23 10:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. She's going to walk on you like a doormat if you take her back and forgive her. It's not worth it. She'll do it again.
2006-12-23 10:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps now is the best time to tell her about the crossdressing thing.
2006-12-23 10:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, so, if you want a cheater stay with her, if not then leave her.
2006-12-23 10:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋