what do you think of a person who just truely wants to die? and has just given up on everything..?

Question

follow up, yes i am this person,, deeply in pain, no i do not hear voices, nor do i seek attention, what i do seek is the love that god has said he would do,, when you have lost everything due to , i have lost that careing felling for people. i am like a ship that will never reach a port, lonly ,sad, hurting , why would people use everything to hurt someone ,, not me,,,,
gods word says , i am his child , then why does he not talk to me , or make his presents known.. when you become totally empty inside ,, what is the use of trying to do any thing anymore,, after you have done what god wants you to ... helping others, careing for the sick and hurting.. then where is god?

Answer 1

As long as they do it like they used to in ancient Japan. That way they maintain some honor and respect in the world,...

I mean,. think about it,.. you have to be a real bad *** to be able to stab yourself in the stomache and cut your own guts out,...

I'd respect the hell out of anyone who did that, and toast that individual everytime i drank...

almost no one on here will understand that, since things like honor and respect are meaningless to them,.. they chase ideals such as love or money

If you kill yourself run of the mill though,. thats dumb,... And I would have no respect for you.... So instead get your Sh@t togethor

Answer 2

A person who feels this way needs help. There might be a lot of problems in this person's life, and maybe they feel empty or hurt inside, but they need to find a reason to live.
People are not meant to die before God calls them home, so they must find some reason to go on until it is their time.
A person in this condition should go to the hospital or to in-patient therapy. They definitely need intensive therapy and some immediate attention. Then they can work with a psychiatrist and counselor. counselors are wonderful for helping people. Perhaps when the person is better, they can find ways of reaching out and helping others, this seems to give a lot of people meaning in their lives.

Answer 3

Well i think that person really needs to go to get help, to be addmitted to a mental hospital, and i am not saying state hospital, ok. I have been there so many times , in the place you are right now. And it is really not worth the time or effort of just giving in and dieing. That can be worked with in a hosiptal and you will find that someday in your life that you see the light at the end of the tunnel. It is a journey, to pull thought not dieing, and giving up on everything, cause you will want to start doing things again, and by this i mean positive , happy good things, and you will find a reason for living. Please take this to heart, cause i have been there, and it is not worth it and now i know you can pull out of it, and have a life again, a good life.

Answer 4

I think you should be allowed to follow through with your wish. Please don't get me wrong; I'm not telling you to go kill your self. It's about the quality of life. If you can't live a fulfilling life because of depression, terminal illness or obsessions, then there should be nothing standing in your way of your wish for death. If you are having second thoughts. I wouldn't recomend it. If you have made up your mind, and thought about all the consequences, then do what ever you want to do. I know that know one on this damn site is going to change your mind if you have already decided. Once again, if you feel you have a poor quality of life, go kick the bucket. Your decision.

Answer 5

Well I feel bad for that person. I've known many who have felt that way. All I can say though is to just not give up,and help yourself out you don't need a therapist to help you maybe you can help yourself a little each day by giving yourself a gift and by making yourself feel good. I hope this helps you. Keep going for it.Love ya,
Tilly

PS I'm assuming the person who is sad is you,but if it isn't pass along the news

Answer 6

I'd say join the club...Why can't people understand it's not that easy to "brighten up" or whatever those upbeat people call it....There's no way to escape yourself...I've felt that way everyday for years but i'm too chicken to do anything about it...It's easy to give up if your in the depths of despair and all anyone can say is "Cheer up"...maybe go online and talk to other people who have been there and maybe still are...no one would understand better than someone who's been there...No matter how much friends and family say "they love you" they just don't get it

Answer 7

Through prayer this person needs to turn the problems over to God. Let God handle life's difficulties so you can have a peace of mind. Being content can lead to happiness.

Answer 8

This person is either in a huge amount of pain or looking for needed attention. I would hope this person sought a professional to speak to on this matter. I am living proof that you can beat this desease.

Answer 9

Are YOU that person?

If so, PLEASE CALL A DISTRESS CENTRE!!!

There are times in life when everything seems very black indeed. When life seems bleak and not worth living. I have had those times, but forced myself to think what my death would cause to those I love. I realized that suicide is the most selfish of all actions. And I did those things I knew would help me, although I didn't feel I had the strength to do them.

THOSE TIMES DO PASS.

Don't do something PERMANENT for a temporary problem.

PLEASE GET HELP IMMEDIATELY.

Here's a Prayer for you. Please, dear G-d, shine Your healing, loving light on this distressed person who needs Your help so badly. Please help them to reach out for help here on earth, if it is Thy Will. Please guide their thinking and actions so that they will understand and know what Your will is for them. Thy Will be done.

Amen.

Answer 10

Perogative is a big word in scrabble. Some people do not have the nerve to do oneself in. Maybe this is a morally correct way to rid oneself of a horrific existence?