Ok here's the deal I'm young, sexy, I have my own place and car, I work I start school next year and I have no kids. Why I can't I find a guy who is worth my time? Who is not so stupid!
2006-12-23 02:00:12 · 34 answers · asked by Lovemeil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The good men are up. You can't keep them down.
2006-12-23 02:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never thought of this as being something you can force. I mean unlike picking out new clothes at the store, you can't go to that "special" place and find the right person.
When you're looking for the right person you're trying too hard.
Start school next year and enjoy everything you've accomplished. Most importantly enjoy being a young adult!
Once you're comfortable with that, the right guy is going to find you.
2006-12-23 02:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, realize no man is likely to live up to the expectations you set for yourself and if you set yourself up to wait for that you will be continually disappointed. Secondly, good men are out there. They may not always look like supermodels, in fact the good ones usually don't because they've found alternate ways to enhance themselves. That doesn't mean they have to be ugly. You need to define what you are looking for, a one-night stand, a long term relationship? Then find a guy that makes you laugh, makes you feel good and makes you feel like you are a better person just by being with him. You seem like a strong, smart woman and you need an equal, not a boss or a pet. Just remember, you have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince.
2006-12-23 02:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, needle in a haystack comes to mind...but, going to school will help. Check out the guys who are NOT the movers and shakers. Check out the guy who decides to take a Womens Studies class, or who majors in humanities or education. Check out any guy who is WILLING to SAY that he is a feminist, and can THEN speak eloquently about why that is. This will be a guy who has done at least a bit of self reflection, work and who just might have a clue about the value of a woman's love. GOOD LUCK, and hold out for the whole package woman, you deserve it, and you can have it!
2006-12-23 02:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by mountain woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young and sexy with your own house and car why are you stressing? You don't want a man right now you are young don't worry about them he will come to you just keep your eyes open so you can see him but don't go searching that is how you find all the a##holes.
2006-12-23 02:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Boo Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually work most of the time to pay the bills and pay off my house.
I'm serious, I'm a good man and a great catch! It's just hard to meet you women that want us. Where do you suggest we all meet up? I often hang out at Home Depot or Lowes when I'm not at work.
2006-12-23 02:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are:
usually married/seriously involved with someone
serving the military in Iraq or Afghanistan
or you haven't circulated in a place where they hang out. Do you have any interests where there are night classes or clubs you can join? Birds of a feather flock together. Your prince will find you, you just need to be patient (even though I know it is hard). As my grandmother used to tell me "if it is yours he will find you, even if you are under a bushel".
Take care. Merry, Merry.
2006-12-23 02:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find what you are looking for. don't be impatient, and don't settle for someone who is not right for you. As another poster mentioned, when you start college next year you will meet more people and someday the right person will be there.
2006-12-23 02:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are attracted to the wrong ones. I found myself a great man......been married for 8yrs now. with time as you mature you will outweigh the party animals for a calmer solid foundation. until then you will still have this blind spot.
and i would take fergy's advise....he is so honest and true. stop being so sure of yourself. it could be a major turn off.
2006-12-23 02:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by sweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI DEAR!!!,IT SEEMS THAT YOU GOT SOME GOOD ANSWERS.
but you certainly have to define what you really want!,there's a whole bunch of idiots out there!!!,just be careful,i've seen some really nice girls getting into a relationship w/some punk,and ending up in a really bad shape,defenitelly don't always look for beauty it could result in bad consecuences(cheating,aids,etc)look for someone who really wants to share verything w/you,and feels proud of you!!!
2006-12-23 02:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by GMORAM29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really are who you say you are then people just want you for physical reasons
im sure someone will come stumbling along who is worth your time but when you see him will you know? or will you just brush him aside because he doesnt look like the other guys youve dated
2006-12-23 02:04:49 · answer #11 · answered by Matt Koz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋