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OK i have a bf but i like this guy but he has a gf but the guy i like luvs me too!and my bf is mean and i thi8nk he is cheating on me!!!!so what should we do to be together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i need help plz answer this Q&A it plz!and one more thing my bf is my cosin!!

2006-12-23 01:58:16 · 16 answers · asked by Xx Animal lover98 xX 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

by the way i am 8!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-23 02:04:26 · update #1

and i am not from west varina

2006-12-23 02:17:27 · update #2

i ment step cosin sorry

2006-12-23 02:21:36 · update #3

the guy i like is my best freind!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-23 02:28:20 · update #4

my parents know!!!!!!!!!!!and i really need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-23 02:31:27 · update #5

and i an going to see him for CRISTMAS!!!!

2006-12-23 02:49:43 · update #6

16 answers

Going out with a family member is not a good idea on many levels. First off, should the two of you (you and your cousin) choose to stay together and if later in life you two become more intimate, your children could have serious health or mental issues. Two people as closely related as you and your cousin should not have children, as this is called "interbreeding" and has been proven to result in a wide variety of ailments for said children, ranging from mental retardation to high-fatality genetic diseases.

Ignoring the fact that your boyfriend is your cousin, staying with a partner who is "mean" is never a good idea, as that unpleasantness could evolve into abusiveness, which would threaten your well-being and possibly your life. This alone is good enough reason to stop dating your current boyfriend.

The fact that your boyfriend is cheating on you is also a heads-up that perhaps you should leave the situation, as he cannot be loyal. Do not assume, however, without sufficient evidence that he IS cheating on you, as this assumption--if not well-founded--can cause even more problems.

If the boy you like likes you as well, both of you can stop dating your current dates. Thus, the problem is solved and the two of you can get together.

You say you are eight? At this age, you are most likely experiencing only mild crushes and should not lull yourself into believing that someone you like is going to end up being the best one for you. Eight years old is awfully young to be dating in most situations, but this may be different in your case, depending on where you live. Discuss this with your parents or guardians, and if they do not approve of your dating, accept that you are rather young-not even yet into the fourth grade, most likely. Wait a few years before attempting to start and engage in a serious relationship.

2006-12-23 02:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0 0

I dont think u should be with your cousin. He is like your brother. If you think he is cheatin and he is mean, then break up with him.

And if you like this other boy and he likes you then talk 2 him and figure out what 2 do bout his gf and what is between the 2 of you.

Now i see that you are 8. Chill out. Dont be in a hurry 2 grow up. Enjoy being a kid and date when you are older. Like over 15.

2006-12-23 02:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0 0

Forgetting the rest of the information in your question, you are 8yrs. old. You should have no boyfriend. Though you think you know what love is, you don't have a clue. Do your parents know that you have a "boyfriend"? bet they don't have a clue. Cause if they did you would not have a boyfriend. Your 8, live like it. Don't worry about all this relationship crap. Trust me, you will get more than your fill of it when you grow up!

2006-12-23 02:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by shaman 4 · 0 0

I hope this one is a gag. A cousin and only 8. I thought Yahoo had a rule about people from West Virginia.

2006-12-23 02:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0 0

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2016-12-11 14:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by daies 4 · 0 0

Wait a minute, did you just say you're fooling around with your COUSIN? What are you from West Virginia or Arkansas or something? Get the F outta here, you have got to be joking.

2006-12-23 02:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok 1.....like go see if your refrigerator is running
and like 2 go check to see if you have toilet paper in the bathroom
the like 3 ask a three year old how long he or she can hold its breath but then like make sure they like let it out because they'll like die if you don't....
like step 4 and 5 should be repeated 15 and half times for good measure
step 9 should be thrown out because it doesn't matter
and then take up oragami because it's cool and ask your parents to get you neutered because you don't need to be breeding
then PLZ for the love of CHRYSLER take a few spelling classes because like you're spelling is like annoying...like okay?!

lol

2006-12-23 20:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by mandaboate_2k 2 · 0 0

You actually have 3 problems.

The first problem is your relationship with your boyfriend. If he is mean and is cheating, plus you don't want to be with him (I will not even touch the whole "cousin" thing), then leave him. That will solve that problem.

The second problem is that you are attracted to a man who has a girlfriend. If he feels the same about you, then he needs to leave his girlfriend. That will sole that problem.

The third problem is that you want to be with this guy. Well, if you have left your boyfriend, and he has left his girlfriend. And, if he wants to be with you, too, then you have solved this problem.

2006-12-23 02:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0 0

It's like you've made up your mind to cross over to this other guy. You're just looking for people here to support your intention. Well, you know the two guys quite alright but I just need to advise you that please look well before you leap. Cheers!

2006-12-23 02:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0 0

omg no way. ur cousin?

you should break up with ur cousin and go out with that other guy that likes you back.

either way dump ur bf aka...ur COUSIN.

=O

2006-12-23 02:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by stupidSTUPID! 2 · 0 0

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