everyone tells me i good lookin with a good personality but at the end of the day im 18 and still a virgin. only a few blokes have looked at me but no one that im really interested in. im so pissed off with being the only virgin i no. i feel like a freek when everyone goes on about their b/g friend and the sex that they have. what is so bad about me? i feel like a complete freek
2006-12-23 01:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chill out. My husband was a virgin until our wedding night when he was 33 years old. There are so many more facets to an individual than sexuality. You are not a freak! Stop focusing on just this one thing and develop other interests. Our premarital relationship was the deepest, most fulfilling one I've ever experienced, and I know he wasn't with me for the sex.
2006-12-23 02:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Aww babe please don't worry about this.
I used to feel like this and i ended up just sleeping with the first person that came along because i was jealous of everyone else who had done it already.
I so regret doing it that way and wish i could take it back but once its gone you cant change it.
There is nothing bad about you and at 18 you should be proud that you have not just given up for some sleazy guy that only wants you for sex.
Some really nice guy is gonna come along one day and you are gonna be glad you waited, trust me. Don't wish your life away babe.
Good luck xxx
2006-12-23 14:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wwlcome to the virgin club because I am 18 and 1/2 and I am still a virgin. You should be proud of urself not a lot of girls are virgin at 18
2006-12-23 10:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right guy, believe me, i lost my virginity at 14 and regretted it for ages, whereas my friend (who is now 21) lost her virginity at 18 to her boyfriend who she is still with. It is nothing to do with looks cause she is beautiful, for some people ot just doesnt happen for a while. Find a guy you like and it will come naturally. Dont be tempted to have a one night thing just to have sex, trust me, you will regret it and anyway the first time is crap.
2006-12-23 14:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure they are actually having all the sex that they are saying they are? Maybe they are just talking about it to make them sound better than they actually are.
Don`t worry about the fact that you are a virgin and concentrate more on finding the right man for you and then having a good time after that and the rest will come on it`s own.
2006-12-23 10:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill out! Whats the rush? I'm 18 and still a virgin.
2006-12-23 10:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.Wait till you are married.you maybe the very few who are a virgin,you should be proud of your self.Don't have sex just because everyone else is doing.your wedding night will be awsome if you wait!
2006-12-23 10:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing bad about you and you're not a freak. If you feel under pressure, don't give in to it, you'll be happier in the long run if you wait for the right person to come along.
2006-12-23 10:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by Poppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if their bragging about what happened in bed last night, just brag about how your not going to get std's!!!lol. You should wait until your wedding night, and that way it will be special for the one you love. Just be glad that you won't be one of the one's passing around aids, because something like that for just wanting 2 have sex could ruin your life for well... the rest of your life!!!
2006-12-23 11:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by annabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you. would you not rather be a virgin at 18 than to have 5 kids running around?
2006-12-23 10:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by shonkamur 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋