Well...I know this guy...his been calling asking me to go out for the past 2 weeks...
I've already told him Im not interested..
well u know..his the kind he thinks he can have every single lady he wants..with his stupid car
so...
today he sends his friend telling me that I should give him a chance because..he told him something how much he likes me..but his friend wont tell me coze he promised..
so I burst out saying
''I cant STAND him''...then at that moment..I relaizes OMG why did I say that?that is so mean..
and just because likes me..his been treating me very nice..
and I said that!! wish I didn't!!
then told his friend that PLZZ not 2 tell him that..just tell him Im not interested...
so I saw him go out of my salon..outside..and straight to him..
I think he told him!!
which makes me soooooooo guilty of what I said!
was that MEAN?..
2006-12-23 01:53:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is but at the same time isn't. it wasn't a great way to put it but it sounds like you tried the nice approach and it didn't work i can understand you being frustrated thou. if you really feel bad and you think he knows what you said then speak to him apologies for what you said tell him you where having a bad day or something. but maksure you are not to nice otherwise he will see it as another opportunity to ask you out AGAIN.
2006-12-23 02:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by NICOLA G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you weren't mean this always happens to people and it's really messed up at how they feel guilty. You continuously tell this guy your not interested, you don't want him and leave you alone. He acts like he doesn't understand that so when you deliver the message in a way that he's sure to understand then, he makes you feel guilty.This isn't fair to you and your feelings and you were only being human when you said this. Maybe he should hear this so he'll leave you alone. Please don't feel bad, it wasn't your fault and you weren't being mean. I hope this helps!
2006-12-23 10:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it because you were angry that his friend wouldn't tell you what you wanted to know. It wasn't mean, just impulsive. Tongue in gear before engaging brain. Just let it go. If he persists, and you REALLY don't want to go out with him, then tell him yourself.
2006-12-23 09:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest isnt mean,,hes a man he can take it,,not like they dont be mean most the time,,besides it probably turned him on more since they always want what they cant have
2006-12-23 10:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a little blunt and rude. I mean even if you don't like him their are better ways of saying that
2006-12-23 10:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - I despise people who think they can get what they want by being too persistent. He should leave you alone or you should get a restraining order. ( or at least threaten him with one..)
2006-12-23 10:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Marshall Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean its not really mean you were just telling the truth and how you really fell about him you cant date someone if you dont like them unless you just like there money but i dont think it was really mean it could have been worse you telling him to his face that you cant stand him
2006-12-23 09:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Amber B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be meaner and tell him to f off!hate those fools,think their so cool cos they have a car,sounds like a loser!ya done it perfectly telling his friend!well done and gd look
2006-12-23 10:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by olliemort 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all, this guy wont stop bothering u when u clearly said that you weren't interested!!!!!
its his prob!!
2006-12-25 13:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by brookbabe90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys don't know if you mean:
No. No.
OR
No. Convince me.
2006-12-23 09:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋