what if :
you were more beautiful
you were more sexy
you were more skinny
and all the possible scenarios
and starts thinking about
where have u gone wrong? what is your problem ? am i not good enough for him ?
2006-12-23 01:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another girl? More.. More... More...
2006-12-23 01:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I have been there. Rejection usually gives a big blow to one's self esteem. You start by blaming yourself and doubting of your qualities. First, do not let the break up make you dislike yourself. Do an exercise by writing down all the things you like about yourself and that other people like about you. Every morning when you look in the mirror tell yourself that you are worthy and beautiful that it is too bad he could not appreciate you. Consequently you will reflect that self confidence and will shine wherever you go. Trust me, someone will notice. Maybe you were not his type. Which does not mean that you won't be somebody else's. Judge yourself lucky that you are now free to find the man who will like all of you.
2006-12-23 09:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is how you feel about yourself! If someone you love is not loving you anymore than you need to take yourself out of that situation and move on! It does not matter if you did anything wrong or how you look....the other does not want you anymore! Stop thinking about the "what ifs" and driving yourself crazy...the relationship is over! You can't change it!!!
2006-12-23 09:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all those doubts, or questions about yourself, it sounds that you're not comfortable with yourself. You should love yourself before expecting someone to love you. The person that rejected you probably liked you, but may have noticed the doubts about yourself and thats why they rejected you.
2006-12-23 09:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by cozmik_terra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will i don't think you should really keep thinking about it because you wont know why he left you i mean who cares about him forget about him move on and try to be more sexy and skinner if he came back to you crawling don't look at him good Luke girl
2006-12-23 09:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by walaa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont feel that because if i like me 4 who i am im not really going to change 4 sum1 else.
2006-12-23 09:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love me, I wouldn't reject you. I'm very lonely you see.
2006-12-23 11:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget them and get out and find someone else
2006-12-23 09:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have nice lips lets hook up!
2006-12-23 09:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by woody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd quit trying
2006-12-23 09:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by bossman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋