What's the deal with him?

Question

I've known this man for almost 10 years, and I met him when I was 14 while he was much older. In June we started our relationship back up. Sort of. He acts like he loves me and is always either doing or trying to do nice things for me. The problem is I don't know if he's a very good talker or serious. He lives in an apartment building and the outside buzzers do not work (I know, I've been in there when friends called my cell to say they rang it). He also has a pay as you go cell. He told me he was tired of paying for that cell and he wasn't going to buy any more cards. The problem is I have no way to contact him, and since it's been 4 days since we last spoke, I'm thinking he is just a player. Why else has he supposedly lost my number and can't bother to call to let me know he's ok? He is twice divorced and I am once divorced. He has one girl and one boy who are adults now and I have one of each as well who are still babies. He is happy for me at times, but I am still weary

Answer 1

I wouldn't worry about it--I'd go out and have fun and forget about him and his games.

Answer 2

If he hasn't contacted you in 4 days, there is probably something wrong. I can't see that it's possible that he has had no opportunity to make a phone call in 4 days. So, maybe he lost your number. He couldn't call your job? He couldn't come to your house? Does he know how to find you?
Leave a note on his front door with your phone number on it and tell him you are worried about him. Or send something in the mail if you are concerned about someone else getting your phone number.

Answer 3

One always has to ask the question (cleaned up for you) is the love you get worth the price you have to pay. I would be not only weary but leery as well.

Answer 4

It's up to you if you want to deal with that kind of situation. If not find someone else who doesn't behave that way.

Answer 5

Counting your blessing. You don’t have to feel guilty, loose the guy.