i love my boyfreind but i recently found out hes been cheating on me, i haven't told him that i found a bra and panties in his room but i love him so much and dont want too lose him. I dont think i could trust him though. Should I brake up with him or not?
2006-12-23 01:13:52 · 20 answers · asked by Jane N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah break up. Once a person cheats it is pretty much over.
2006-12-23 01:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are your bra and panties, no problem right? Unless you didn't intend for them to be removed. What part of love includes being hurt and cheated on? Don't you think it might be a good idea to be able to trust the one you love? Love doesn't exist apart from how two people treat each other. If you like finding other girls bra and panties in his possession, stay with him. He's not likely to change.
2006-12-23 09:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most guys cheat sometime in a relationship in some way or another. It is up to you to decide if you will forgive and forget or allow him to carry on doing it.
I think the you should ask him about it. I was living alone in a house and panties and bras would appear all over the house that i was not responsible for, you see my freinds would visit too and of course their girlfreinds so you have to clarify with him and see. or as the other person said he may have been trying it on for size :-) just kidding
2006-12-23 09:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by raj_shah_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you found a bra and panties in his room doesn't mean that he is cheating on you, or perhaps he is. The only way to find out is to be honest and ask him about your finding. If he is honest enough, he will tell you. Maybe it's his sister or maybe he likes to wear womens clothing, you don't know, unless you ask him. Remember that a realtionship is built on honesty, love and COMMUNICATION.
2006-12-23 09:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Big&Tall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, once a cheater, always a cheater. sorry but the cold hard truth. sometimes, people don't change. and if he loved you he would not have cheated on you. Trust me, there is someone out there who would never hurt you like this.
Or the get back at him telling him you know but accidentally,
find the girls panties and bra go wash them, put them on, and set up a hot date. then show him the bra and underwear. see his reaction and post it on here telling us what happened. you can adjust this idea however you want to . Good luck!
2006-12-23 09:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should ask him straight out whose they are and why they're in his room.
⥠if you can properly trust that hes telling the truth and he says he didn't cheat on you then you have no problem.
⥠if he denies it and you don't believe him, forget abou tit. theres no use in a relationship without trust and a cheating boyfriend.
⥠if he says he did cheat then i'd break up with him. cheating is a horrible thing to do and treating you like that is shameful.
hope this helps and for your sake i hope he never cheated and there was just a mix up. Have a merry Christmas, x
2006-12-23 09:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by FreakGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love my boyfreind but i recently found out hes been cheating on me, i haven't told him that i found a bra and panties in his room but i love him so much and dont want too lose him. I dont think i could trust him though. Should I brake up with him or not?
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2006-12-23 09:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
he might just use them as fantasy material for his, ahem, solitary pleasures.
Watch him over christmas. If he's sticking it somewhere he shouldn't be, he will try to phone her on Christmas day.
I find it hard to believe that this "other" young lady would be stupid enough to leave her undies where YOU could find them. Unless that was her intention of course.
finding underwear is NOT the same as finding another girl in his bed, but it is good grounds for suspicion.
Don't mention them. You don't want to end up arguing about a grotty old pair of panties do you? ... just be watchful....
2006-12-23 09:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but I think you already know the answer and are looking for confirmation. If he cheated once there is no way you can trust him again. I'm sure that most of us who answer will say the same thing. Good Luck.
2006-12-23 09:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignoring a fact makes it not happened
if u ignore this one u will do so in all ur life
we cant just close the eyes in front of the truth and pretend like there has nothing happened
face the truth and the facts and learn to have conversations even fights
2006-12-23 09:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋