I don't want to married..NEVER!..I can't imagin my rest of my life with only one man..i mean.. to spend my life with only one person..? FREAKY!!! but i want to make children.. [in the reeeally long future from now]..Is it a sin for Christians to make a child without being married?
2006-12-22 23:31:53 · 25 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The idea of "sin" is just a human invention to force people for a certain pattern.
Nothing can be "sin" related to raising children (except beating them or exploiting them). Go ahead and forget about the stupid religious teachings!
2006-12-22 23:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by blapath 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think the sin, absent the religious connotation, is in wanting a man to only serve as a means to an end, and implying that you want his involvement severed or reduced after birth of the children. I can't say you are bound to a man for the sake of his right to be involved with his children, at least not if he is a bad person, but I can say you would be terribly selfish. But, no matter the agreements made, it's often human nature to want to be a part of your child's life. So ask yourself if you could give that up.
Your attitude is unethical. That's the bottom line.
2006-12-23 07:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex outside of marriage is a sin for Christians. Your options would be to adopt or seek insemination.
However what touched me is that you sound exactly like I did when I was younger. I told all my family and friends for years that I was not going to marry. No man was going to boss me around, and that I did not intend to be anyone's servant... I have a feeling you know exactly what I mean.
At the time my mom just told me that one day I would meet the right someone and would change my mind entirely on this. She also said I would just 'know' when that was the case.
I am not trying to change your mind, but there is someone out there for everyone. I know, I found him. All I am saying is always keep your mind open.
2006-12-23 07:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by xillith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sin is defined as an offense against God's will, so logically you would have to look in the Bible for your answers.
The Bible says yes it is a sin. And you need to think of the child not just yourself. Who is your dad? Some guy, mom was with once. Just one of mom's boyfriends. It is selfish to bring a child into the world and not think of their feelings.
2006-12-23 07:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is a sin to have a child out of wedlock. It is also a sin to be promiscuous. You may want to seek some sort of therapy to figure out why you are so freaked out about having one person devote his life, heart, and body to you and only you. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be married but pre-marital sex is a sin.
2006-12-23 07:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is actually a sin to have sexual intercourse with a person who you are not committed to spending the rest of your life with. It is because it is not fair to create children without at least the hope of having a father and mother, together.
2006-12-23 07:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think "sin" means? Stop thinking in terms of legal rules, and start thinking about results. Is it psychologically healthy that you can't see yourself with one husband, or that you despise marriage? Is it healthy for a child to be raised without parental role models? Sin is not some obscure rule, like "don't eat the brown M&M's...
2006-12-23 07:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In todays age of technology NO because you do not even have to have SEX to "make" a baby.
If you want to have SEX and/or make a baby by having Sex then yes it is a sin outside of marriage. 1 Corinthians 7 ...if you have burning desire and cannot contain yourself it is better to marry than to burn.
It is not a sin not to get married, but who wants a SEX LESS life?
Galatians 5:19-23 tells of the sins of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit.
Christian in Pa.
2006-12-23 07:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. You want to have children, but you don't want to be married. You have every right to do that, and since you're only bringing more love and life into the world, then it can't be wrong.
2006-12-23 07:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have children for the sake of having a child, but don't want to be married, I suggest that you adopt. However, if you want to make children just for the pleasure of it, and ar doing so, then that IS the sin.
2006-12-23 07:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋