this is a complicated situation that I have and I really need help...there are four guys in my life now which is more than I could handle...there is my ex-boyfriend who I broke up with and now I talk to as a friend but he really wants to be with me and wants me...there is this other guy who is my friend but he's hinting he wants to be more than that and is very protective of me and wants me to be with him the whole time and wants to know everything I do every second and gets mad when I tell him I can't talk right now my boyfriend is on the other line.my boyfriend is very jealous and wants me all for him and doesn't want me to talk to other guys.then there is this guy that I sort of broke up with but not exactly because we split up and went our separate ways and I thought that was a break up but now he's back in my life and is acting like my boyfriend but he doesn't know I have one because I know he'll be hurt because he loves me.I know it's wrong what I'm doing but what do I do
2006-12-22 22:59:02 · 11 answers · asked by plain person 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try being honest with them instead of playing head games!
2006-12-22 23:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me.....you sound like a big time tease and a player, sweetie, not to mention signs of a s lut!! You need to stop all of this and grow up! Quit playing and teasing with guys' feelings. You are the one to end up in bad situation after bad situation in your life. You like all the attention and have a stone heart. Go get some counseling and try to figure out your deep seated problems. Leave the boys alone.....they do not deserve someone like you!
2006-12-23 07:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation 3 years ago. My sugesstion is go with the one who you are the most attracted to and you know deep down in your heart. That it is just meant to be. However you dont need a man to make youself happy you can be just as happy single then with someone. Your heart will tell you what you really want. Good luck. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year too!
2006-12-23 07:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky to have so many guys in your life, but no matter what you do, 3 of them will get hurt. The best thing to do is to follow your heart and pick the one you really want to be with. Or leave all of them and go your separate ways.
They say, if you love something set it free and if it comes back it was meant to be...
Hope that helps you
2006-12-23 07:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all are you using protection? what you start out with is what you get so whomever the controlling individual is you need to cut him loose. it's not good to have so many guys dangling on a string eventually someone will get hurt. if you decide that you want to see more than one guy just be honest when you meet one and tell him your not ready to be in a committed relationship. either they'll except it or they wont. this way they no whats going on and there wont be any unnecessary drama.
2006-12-23 07:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by desperate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jiminy cricket girl!! Sounds like you are a player. Stringing these guys along for your own amusement. If you really want to be a stand up person. You will have only one guy that you have as a boyfriend. The others you must tell them from your own mouth that you just want to be friends. If they cant handle that, that is on them. PS Grow up.
2006-12-23 07:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you need to stop seeing all of them and start to focus on what it is that is making you bring on so many boys in ur life in the first place. You should never play head games cuz some jealous ppl can be very dangerous. Drop them all and get a grip on what it is you want for (you) and on what it is (you) don't need!!!
2006-12-23 07:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Line them all up and give them some Christmas head. That will keep them happy until the new year and will give you some time to work things out.
2006-12-23 07:04:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....you better figure it out soon ....actually, did you notice the pattern in the guys that you have chosen...all jealous and possessive.....If I were you, I would dump all of them and find someone who isn't so controlling.....good luck...be the dumper because the longer this goes on, the greater the chance that they will find out what you are doing and you will be the dumpee.....
2006-12-23 07:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop back and punt.
2006-12-23 07:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by is4031_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋