Its been eating at me inside for quite awhile. I was in a long distance relationship and I found out she was cheating on me about halfway through the relationship and was lying about it, even though I noticed her behavior changed. I treated the girl like a queen. I sent her gifts, wrote her poems, even paid for trips to try and go see her, but each time, the night before, something "supposedly" went wrong by her, and I lost a lot of money from that. Im in a lot of pain because she would never tell me what was wrong, despite me asking politely many times. We were very much in love with each other and I trusted her. She acts all happy now like nothing happened, and its clear as day that she cheated, because anyone can see that from her website, and still she lies about it. Im just completely humiliated and angry over the whole thing, and I just wish there was something I could do to have some justice finally, because Im a very nice person and I didnt deserve what was done to me.
2006-12-22 22:53:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS.I'LL TELL U THE SECRET IT'S CALLED KARMA.AS THEY SAY WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE & FIND YOURSELF A GIRL OR LADY WHO TRUELY CARES 4 U.YOUR EX AIN'T WORTH THE FUSS.IN THE LONG RUN YOU'LL REALISE SHE DID YOU A FAVOUR!
2006-12-22 22:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by MAIME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back at her by leaving her and never come back. Don't explain your reason for leaving, give her absolutly NO closure whats so ever. The guilt will eat at her for long time.
I've done this to every girl that betrayed me in some way. People say women are better communicators than men. Ive seen no proof of that whatsoever, so I don't trust girls tell me the truth of what wrong they've done unless she's really genuine, which is rare. So when I just up and take off, they feel guilty, and it never fails when they come back desperately seeking forgiveness. And I feel bad at first but then I remind myself, "Hey, I didn't do anything wrong. She's the one who did this or that. So if this is the only way to get at her and make her talk, then so be it. Maybe girls should BE MORE MATURE like society claims".
In the end, when they come back, I've already found a better girl, which adds to their pain. Mission "payback" completed.
2006-12-22 22:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on get over it. Stop being so needy and gullible there are so many pretty women out there that are not like that .As for pay backs the best thing you can do is moving on with your life and forgetting that girl move on little brother it will take you some time but you can do it . Garth Brooks has a song called Thank God for unanswered prayers.You'll be o.k if you let this weight off in the next corner.Good luck and God Bless....
2006-12-22 23:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's her website? We'll post mean messages on it and tell her she's ugly.
Seriously, best revenge is to get on with your life and never look back. Not worth your time. Easier said then done.
Why not write her a letter or email, explaining how you feel? Let her know you know that she cheated. It will give you closure, but you will never have the reaction from you that you want. You want her to feel sorry and regret it. And that probably won't happen. Don't spend anymore time trying to get revenge. You are a better person then she.
2006-12-22 22:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by avalonlee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? Is anyone home here??? What part of your story don't you get??? You said it all......lies, cheating, spending money etc. yet you do not seem to "get it". I do not feel sorry for you at all, pal.....you choose to continue in this. You need to move on.....no communication and chalk it up to learning about Life. You will always loose if you seek revenge. You need to change your phone number and your e-mail address and have no contact with this person. There is no future in a long distance relationship.......what is the point?? You each have not met eacher others' needs so why not move on. Stop whining and make better choices! DUH!!!
2006-12-22 23:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer: sucker!!!!!! kick her tothe curb. write the ***** off. get a remporary replacement or try staying in and watch tv for a few months before sccouting out another bird. merry christmas adn happy new year. you don't have any idea how lucky you are to be okay in england or wales wor irelad or wherever the nell you are. it is pure hell in the usa. ancestors came from there. i would liketo go there and say my final years iam old and kinda sick. "last ofthe summer wine," you might say. i want to go "home" where the hip hop heads and drive by shooters and some true political scoundrels from texas don't live. bet on a landslide turnover in our next election. mhy god we got bamboozled this time. want to leave foreever like when theings were bad there and myy ancestors left there for here. well, the melting p;ot thing has not worked. andthe age-old slave thing has turned out to be the undoing ofthis whole studpid endeavor. people have tribes here they are at war.
2006-12-22 23:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people really just block out the bad things they do to others that care about them, and will deny what everyone else knows to the end. some kind of a sickness. I am having problems with someone like that right now. I have been ultra generous with her, and She steals from me, and lies about it, or makes excuses when I find the stuff at her place. Best to distance yourself from them, they are digging their own graves and will try to take you down with them, in the end. I am ending all contact with this one.nothing but bad news comes friom her. could you ever really trust her again? I cant.
2006-12-22 23:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arlon, I'm sorry you're in so much pain about this.
If she is your ex now, the best way to deal with the situation is to let it go, and continue life, for the better, without her. Carrying around the pain and resentment you feel now will make other relationships with other, better, women more difficult for you.
Trying to get back at your ex will only add more pain; there is no justice in heartbreak.
Move on, and grow strong.
2006-12-22 23:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
justice is such a dead word these days. there probably is a good way to getting back at her, but that requires a lot of work and information, and quite frankly it isnt worth it. because someone hurts you doesnt not mean you should try to hurt them back. just makes you sound like a child. anyways, dude dont waste your time...what has been done has been done just move on with your life. life is about lessons and i am sure you learned a grand one. anyways good luck and take it easy.
2006-12-22 23:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear what she did to you..it obviously was not right..and no one deserves to be treated like that.
Dont get revenge on her....it is not worth it..just move on..she was not the one for you. you will find the right girl in time..and i know you are hurting right now..so try do things to get your mind active instead of being focused on getting revenge...you'll be much happier thinking and doing other stuff..than thinking of a revenge plan. GoodLuck.
2006-12-22 22:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay away from any contact with her. Let it go or it will keep eating at you inside and out. Your happiness without her is the best "revenge". Look forward, not back. You owe that to yourself.
2006-12-22 23:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by Daniel J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋