should i trust him..he asked me out through d net....n stays far away..(distance factor)n is 5 years older to me....but he says he likes me...is it right for me to say 'yes' to him??
2006-12-22 22:43:39 · 26 answers · asked by rulzz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's your decision!
But i can tell you my story: I've met someone 5 1/2 years older than me in the Internet, we have been talking only through e-mails for almost a month and we both felt as we found our other half! We matched immediately! Then, we arranged to meet for a coffee again and again. We are a couple for a year now!! We are very in love and happy and i feel as if he is the one for me!
But of course that doesn't mean than you can trust everyone you talk with! Take care and good luck!!
2006-12-22 22:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its exciting to think of an online romance thing but honestly, truly i dont think you should trust this guy. this is because well despite what people say, i think the net is still very dangerous and guys that are usually on there are just havin fun and mucking about. u sed he is 5 years older than u. how old are u? and how old is he? it makes a difference. and also he may be lying to u...maybe he is younger or some old perverted man??? you have to think about these things and my biggest advice is if you do go to meet him, go with someone and in a public place (restaurant, cinema etc) anyway whatever you do, good luck and take care.
2006-12-22 23:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER. there are a lot of creeps on the net. And you shouldnt really trust people you have never met in person. Although if you do wanna go out with him i suggest that you go to a place that is public where there are a lot of people and ask a group of friends to come with you just to be on the safe side
goodluck!
2006-12-22 23:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you not heard of a recent case?
A man met a woman on the net from Brazil. He visited her twice.
He went back the third time with a ring.
The woman had a boy friend. They kidnapped him, held and tortured him until he gave them his pin to bank accounts. Cleaned him out, and killed him. She is in prison in Brazil. He was in his 50s, not a teen.
I am near 80. I've had 3 or 4 teens contact me. I could have been some nut. The net is bad news.
2006-12-22 23:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could meet him in a very public place and have a friend shadow you to make sure you're OK. If you've communicated for a long time on the net and feel you know him well then go ahead and meet him. Make sure you have a plan so that you will be able to get away if something goes wrong. Take separate vehicles to your first meeting and don't go back to his house alone, good luck!
2006-12-22 22:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with this picture? He could be a bum. a creep, a 50 year old man, a sex pervert, another woman---anything. Go out and make real live friends you can see face to face. and your own age. God, why sit on the computer when the world is a wide open beautiful place. Sure he likes you---because he wouldn't get anywhere if he said he didn't like you. Grow up and see the light---before you get hurt.
2006-12-22 22:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead and say yes, as long as you want a cheap, meaningless hookup. 99.9% of the men you talk to on the net are just looking for sex. And the distance thing really isn't a factor--men are famous for traveling thousands of miles if they think they might get some.
2006-12-22 22:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have something in your heart for him that's why u are thinking about him. It may be possible that he is really looking for a girl like you. call him at a public and busy place and ask him about the dress he is going to wear so that you can recognize him. if he ask you about ur dress tell him but don't wear the same dress you told him. on the day of meeting go with a friend of yours and after recognizing him from a farther distance u can decide whether u should talk to him or not and go on according to ur decision
2006-12-22 23:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by rohit r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you plays a factor/if yes take a friend or some friends / the savest with the world being like it is NO is your best bet however you just never know so its always better to be safe than sorry
2006-12-22 22:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by bonestra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you,I would be very careful of someone who claims to like me and he never met me,also if you decide to date him,have someone with protection at the same place in case he tries something weird.I mean,you should drive your own vehicle,pay the gas for someone else to follow you,meet in a very public place,and do not kiss,hug too tight or exchange any body fluids.I would suggest the library,mall for dining,and never get into his car,or be totally along with him.peace,and may the Creator bless you.
2006-12-22 22:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by lolo rachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋