I know how girls are attracted to bad boys, or gangsters.
But how about those who are Jerks in the real sense of the word? As in those who openly embrace being jack-asses? Stepping on other people, being selfish, inconsiderate?
2006-12-22 22:29:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real reason I am asking this question is there is this Jerk at work who I really dislike. Really, I feel kind of sad for him to have his attitude cause I think it is detrimental to his future and success. I was wondering if his Jerki-ness gets him more girls than me.
I never think of becoming more Jerky to get girls, as that would make me closer to the animal kingdom than the human race!
2006-12-22 22:53:01 · update #1
it is just like the bad boy feature but i think the female that pick those are idiots. no one should even put thereselves in that situation.
2006-12-22 22:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the jerk part that girls like, but the bad boy image. Girls definitely like cool guys who are dominant and can take control, namely the bad boys. The problem is that many bad boys also happen to be jerks because they are naturally arrogant and self-centered. Ideally girls will prefer someone who looks and acts like a bad boy but who is also caring and un-selfish, at least to her; whether they can ever find such a combination is a different question. Many females do seem willing to put up with the jerk part in order to get a bad boy.
2006-12-23 06:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature girls always go for the easiest guys---the ones that offer nothing because the girls are looking for nothing. It's that simple. Set your sights on a girl who is mature and ready for a real nice relationship built on her appreciation of a guy who shows respect and has dignity and class. What type of girl do youwant? You want nice---go for nice. You want cheap silly foolish girl--you'll find it. Ignore the guys who are jerks-you must be better than them.
2006-12-23 06:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls will fall for Jerks if they are Popular like in hs and they feel that they will become popular as a result of dating them. They will get dumped then learn there is more to it than finding a piece of meat.
2006-12-23 06:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say no......But my experiences lead me to say otherwise. Girls like the impossible. We often find ourselves attracted to guys who are all wrong. Even if the guy is a jack-***, since most women are idealists they'll believe that they can change this.
2006-12-23 06:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by evedc16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm . . . they won't admit to it, but they like guys like that. The reason: they find them exciting. You have to find a way to be exciting without being a jerk. And don't be too nice either -- they find that to be boring. Good luck!
2006-12-23 06:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd have to say yes. I am a jerk and have always been surrounded by women who desperatly want me. LOL!
2006-12-23 06:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always good to have som balls... its nothing cute... just straight up being a ss hole..... its okay but its only for a while..... id be a more understanding person if the other half of time i listened to females. sometimes they are smarter than us.
2006-12-23 06:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO we like gentle men and we like being treated with respect.
2006-12-23 06:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by Chhaya05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To an extent,yes.
2006-12-23 06:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋