forgot to include we been together 2yrs at that time i was in my hotel rm i pulled the curtains bk and seen him at my car getting our stuff,they were doing the same getting there stuff i watched til he came bk i was ready to call it off then.he promised it would'nt happen again but how would i know.the tongue part was what made it all wrong to me.i guess i really do not trust him anymore.made me very insecure and i was,nt befor this happened.that was 0ne yr ago.
2006-12-22 22:26:51 · 11 answers · asked by lydia w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unless you are ready to bury him, get used to it!
Men look!
2006-12-22 22:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once caught my dad looking at another woman. When I said something to him, he said to me in reply, "If I'm still looking, it must mean I've found the right one." Now, my father, by all accounts, was an extremely devoted husband to my mom so there isn't the same kind of situation as you have with the guy you are describing. Still, competition (and thats really what it is) can be quite fierce. Do something provocative and make him stare at you for a change. :-)
Wishing you the best of luck.
2006-12-22 23:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by G A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are always checking out other women. I think as long as he comes home to you, you have nothing to worry about. If there is a lack of trust in your relationship, maybe its time to move on. If there's no trust in a relationship then it isn't going to work.
Women check out guys too. They're just less obvious about it. Maybe you should stare at other guys and see how he likes it.
2006-12-22 22:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men got not respect for their wife or girlfriend they stare at other women the same goes to the women they stare at other men.Some just like perving.
2006-12-22 22:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Zexyana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he did that hideous tongue thing to another women. Leave him. I understand its natural for any sex to notice someone attractive but to act on it is just damn wrong. You have a potential cheater on your hands . Get rid of him.
2006-12-22 22:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as we all know..many men are pigs and think of only one thing..but not all do..if my boyfriend went to the extent of wagging his tongue at some one, i think i would be in your position of insecurity too..time to find someone that respects your relationship..good luck!
2006-12-22 22:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by mad mom in mass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this absolutely is a diction train wreck to the point I don't understand what your question is. Try redoing it and thinking it thru.
2006-12-22 22:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been together two years and you just noticed this behavior? maybe it was just his sexy personality, he might not realize that it makes you feel bad. on the other hand, keep your eyes open. i would be a bit suspicious.
2006-12-22 22:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by niko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, all men want to stare at other women, it's their nature, some men have more self control, others do it discretely
2006-12-22 22:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dana N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to look at the menu....as long as you eat at home....
if you are feeling insecure thats your problem...not his....
maybe there is more in this than you think...
him looking at other women should not be threatening for you....
2006-12-22 22:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋