I am about to give this girl whose birthday falls next month a birthday card that I made by myself. I spent lots of effort in that card and I also plan to give her a cute little gift.
However, in the "class tradition" that we live in, students do not usually give their friends present EXCEPT it is being celebrated. Especially a boy giving a girl a present on her birthday which is not celebrated, you can rarely see that.
If I am the only boy who give her something from my heart, how would she feel?
(This girl knows that I like her, i told her before but she said just want to be friends.)
2006-12-22 21:57:54 · 22 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure she would feel very special. I'm Orthodox so I know what you're talking about we do not concentrate actually on celebrating birthdays we celebrate name days. Anyways, I'm sure she would love it. I feel she won't be angry. I sure wouldn't be angry. Just because a birthday is not openly celebrated, that doesn't mean you can't give a gift. This girl you care for quite deeply I sense..She is very lucky to have someone like you. I hope all turns out just the way you feel it should. Take care.
(again this girl is quite a lucky one.)
2006-12-23 03:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by art_girlt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it as friends and don't do anything that will make her uncomfortable or uneasy. It is a noble gesture but why not change your mind and go get lunch or an ice cream.....start thinking of options that will work. This will be a lesson to you if it works out OK. And if she wants to be just friends--it's her choice==find another girl to go after if a steady is what you want. There is plenty of time and a million girls---be cool and take your time with these issues.
2006-12-22 22:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy to receive something from someone whom I knew cared about me....and the fact that you made the card makes it all the more special. You should get a great big kiss and a huge hug for your time and your effort. You are what every man should be
2006-12-22 22:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact, she's not interested, she has told you so, so move on, and get over it. Your present will just make her feel uncomfortable, and you will loose a good friend as well. Give her the card, and save the present for somebody who will respond to your interest.
2006-12-22 22:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by DAVID C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said that she wants to be a friend ONLY ... was she serious or maybe she is trying to see how serious you are in your request (if u really like her, you'll ask again & again .. as girls think !! ) ...
will she may have any problems infront of her family, friends... etc getting a present from you (as a guy ) !!!!
is she kinda personality that is really sharp & straight with her reactions that she may regret it ot not ?? ... i mean sometime people accept the present just coz they get shy regreting it !!! who is she from them ...!!!
gave you some hints ... think & decide !!! hope i did help in this :)
2006-12-22 22:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why she will be angry???
you said its a birthday card you made and a little cute gift, so you can keep it as a suprise like: when she opens her locker or bookpack, she will find out that it yours, so there is no way for your class mates to feel that you gifted her a gift. Hide it in somewhere she will find out in her house or away from school.
2006-12-22 22:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in what context are you giving her the gift if you are giving it as a friendly gesture with no relationship overtones then i don't think she would be angry. but as you already stated you told he you liked her as more than friends and she told you that she only wanted to be friends. She has interests in someone else. you Will be wasting your time and money pursuing her. remember there is than one fish in the ocean. so go fishing for the one that wants you. It will save you some heartbreak in the grand scheme of things
2006-12-23 00:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should be asking her parents permission before you give her the gift, this would show them that you respect them and their daughter. Or you could, leave it on the stoop of her door and just sign the inside of the card, then she won't know who it's from until she opens it. I'd go with the first option myself.
2006-12-22 22:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think too much. If you really want to give her something that comes from your heart, go ahead and do it. thats so sweet of you that you made b-day card by your self. I can't believe that you're guy. But good luck!
2006-12-22 22:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no rules about gift giving and "it's the thought that counts." She'll appreciate the effort you put into the gift and that will matter to you.
2006-12-22 22:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋