What must be the behaviour of a girl when he needs break?
2006-12-22 21:56:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he needs a break leave him....there are no 'breaks' in love. just dump him and a break means no seeing/talking to eachother.
2006-12-22 21:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by @ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy now? Are you enjoying the emotional roller coaster ride you're on? You need to look at this situation realistically. Supposedly this all began with something that no one had any control over ( a dog running out in the street). That being the case, I guarantee you this will be an ongoing thing throughout your relationship. It's called life, and if he can't handle it, he's always going to be miserable. He pursued you in the beginning in hopes that the good feeling that you gave him would last. It hasn't. So now he doesn't want to put the same effort forth to continue your relationship. Apparently he doesn't seem to care about how he's making you feel in the process. He's not going to get better by you loving him more or being a better girlfriend or whatever. At 27 he should be getting help for the problems he has. Obviously he's not. You don't just "make yourself happy" and things aren't just going to magically get better . Furthermore, it appears that he wants to blame his mood on everything but himself. This sounds like a person that is a total victim of his surroundings. Apparently he has a long history of this type of behavior, according to what his friends have told you. Just read your own post. It's all about what he needs and wants. That's not a healthy relationship. Mark my words, you will regret it if you continue with this guy. Hopefully you realize this sooner rather than later. I'm not trying to be harsh or mean at all. I just hate the idea of a young person investing their time and emotions on a situation because they don't have the benifit of experience or objectivity. It's very difficult sometimes to see the real truth of a situation when you are very emotionally involved in it. I guess that's where " can't see the forest for the trees " would apply.
2016-05-23 01:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, you know that depends on the situation entirely. I hope things will go better for you... If he needs a break, I've always been the kind of person to let it go, let it ride, and I go out. I've always met other people by doing so... but it's been good for me in many ways. I remember thinking back, and thinking that I could or would never be able to get over someone, and now I'm over that person... so there's hope.
2006-12-22 22:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me a break = a step / excuse before braking up.
However, if thats what he asked for, adding pressure simply wont work. I dont know whether u pushed him or not, either way i suggest you give him the space and let him show up first and see, and try to be nice when he does. See how goes...
2006-12-22 22:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he need a break?? have u caused this to happen? wer u being too clingy or needy..? if yes then give him space and ease up. if not then sumthing dodgy is going on and you need to confront him and tell him to get lost. generally ignore him 4 abit and tell him here take all the space you want. then let HIM communicate with u agen..not the other way round
2006-12-23 00:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you must leave him a break or space means freedom to cheat on you find a nice guy this is what i think but my husband says it to take time to find out what he wants from the girl / life ect 2 for one cant be bad
2006-12-22 21:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by julie t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he needs his space give it to him let him make communication with you because if he tells you he needs his space and you are still trying to communicate with him you're really not giving him his space if you two are meant to be you will be if not then just move on.
2006-12-22 22:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by bonestra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say that the guy should tell her that she can call if she needs to, but that she needs to understand that he needs just a little space. it would be ok for her to call..every once in a while, dont call everyday. dont call to tell little details...like im going to see a movie, or im going to go eat, or im going to do this do that. there is a limit. young men tend to run away from relationships that get very close. just a little space is needed and things should be back to normal.
2006-12-22 22:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by xdamachinex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. If he says he needs space me means not hearing from you at all..let him be the one to contact you n then dump him n move on to someone who does want you around.
2006-12-22 22:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must try her best to keep up with communication. if he's spending time, with himself and his mates, she'll have to wait for him. if a guy is on a break from women, there is nothing really she can do, apart from waiting for him, because if he likes her, he will go back to her.
2006-12-22 22:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋