emotional problems
2006-12-22 21:49:13 · 19 answers · asked by josh k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Great, Think she doesnt deserves you, tell that she is so poor and you look for some gud and descent girl.. who will love u and only you..
2006-12-22 21:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Richa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts and you have a heartache right now just like many before you under these same circumstances. You don't really get over the sadness and the heartache but time helps heal the hurt if you were in love with her. The best thing I can tell you to do is to involve yourself in something which interests you and reconnect with your friends who will help you heal if they are good friends. Maybe one of them could set up a date for you with someone. Sometimes that helps. Just don't dwell on what happened or why it happened because this is the wrose thing you can do and it only makes you hurt worse.
2006-12-23 05:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, was she good to you? Or did she just leave you for some other guy? I'm not sure how your relationship was with her, but if she doesnt have a problem breaking up with you, why should you feel bad? She's probably feeling good and having fun, and you should be having fun too. There are better girls out there, especially if your still young, so dont worry about it, and dont compare these new girls to your ex-girlfriend. Also, exercise and listen to music to forget about your ex quicker too.
2006-12-23 05:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i know it is kind of hard to accept the harsh fact. Everything just takes more time. Give yourself more time to calm down, ESPECIALLY dont do stupid things out of silly-ness. Even a wound takes time to heal. Since she choose to leave you it is her lose, she dont deserve it. Try looking at the more positive side. Try comparing yourself to the entire world, you will realise this sadness is nothing compare to everything else. dont take things to the self-centre , thinking that nothing can be worse in the world or that your pain is the worst. It is not the true. 5 years down the road, looking back at today, you will be laughing at yourself being silly. All the best ^^ cheers merry xmas
2006-12-23 06:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by y0shimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know that feeling. What is really bad is when she won't talk about why.
Try to be at least friends with her, so that she can help you avoid the same mistakes with your next girlfriend.
I find that girls love compliments on there clothes and hair and make up and they love cute humor too.
Allways go beyond the call of duty to satisfy your girl and she will love your for it and you will be so happy! be nice even if you have to grit your teeth and never embarrass her in front of her friends. BE A GENTLEMAN! Girls even like geeks if they are nice and complimenting.
2006-12-23 06:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Kirk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking something fun! Hangout w/ friends/ familly... And throw away all stuff that will make you remembered her...
or... meditation? :p cmon... cheer up theres is still much girl out there... the statistic show us that 1:3 between girl and boy in this world...dont be sad while theres another girl waiting for you out there... be patience the time will healed you... ^_^
2006-12-23 06:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by theresia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sadness is temporary. If she left you, she wasn't right for you. Stay with people who DO appreciate and value you, like your friends or family. Start doing something you enjoy and stop thinking about her.
2006-12-23 05:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is no way to ever get over it. but one thing u can try is to get togeter with ur friends go have fun for as long as u need to . mabe go to a party. find a girl that would apreciate ur love and affection.an just chill out for a wile , let off steam. wat i think is u shouldnt be sad, u shuld be angry, go punch a boxing bag or something or break something.
2006-12-23 05:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by cute_lil_surfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals, sorry to say but it takes awhile. Fate is a curious thing. You will look back in a year or two and see how much better off you are and see how it was a good thing.
2006-12-23 05:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl, There are 3 for every one guy, there are many girls looking for a nice guy. You can replace her real fast if you go to the right places to meet girls, get going today and get out there.
2006-12-23 05:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋