He bugs me all day he comes over and uses my computer(last time he got a virus on my computer),eats my food, takes my clothes and doesnt return them,Puts on my cologne,he takes showers at my house without permision,And he always wants me to give him a ride 2 his house he is really anoying, I recently bought a ipod and he went out and got one but he expects 2 download music at my house because he doesnt have a computer, What can i say 2 him so he can understand he is really anoying
2006-12-22 21:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by Pimpsta© 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your the sort of family member that everybody has at least one of. First you make it so this cousin of yours rely's on you for things when u can tell him "no" , second when he's out the door u ***** at everyone but him about how much he is annoying u.
Whatever happened to a little compassion? Is it really so much of a big deal to help him out. I'm sure if he didn't need your assistance he wouldn't go to u for help.
He obviously figures its okay for him to use your computer or whatever else because you have done nothing but kiss his ***, and pretend as if your his friend.
If you don't like something tell him to get lost and quit being so two-faced.
2006-12-23 00:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know he is your cousin which allows his some slack but enough is enough. Sit him down and let him know what behaviors he is doing that annoy you and what your expectations are when he comes to your "home". If he isn't willing to abide by those things then don't answer the door when he comes over.
2006-12-23 06:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey tell the cousin the truth.Yes he will be annoyyed but inside his heart he will know the truth.Cause if you let it to continue it will reach to a certain point where by you will fail to tell him.
You better tell him earlier than letting him get used.
2006-12-23 06:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Beaty Ka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make him to understand in polite behaviour that he is having some limitations & u r having privacy in life
2006-12-23 08:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shavina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant just tell him he's annoying and you dont want nothing to do with him, just say he needs his own independence and cant keep using your things. Tell him if he wants these things to get them himself, and to return the things he took from you. Hope that helps!
2006-12-23 05:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Talbot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is going to keep taking advantage of you until you stand up to him. Be polite as much as you can but be direct and dont back down
2006-12-23 08:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bullying you, because you accept his actions he will continue to bully you, You must tell him "enough" and say exactly what bothers you and if he don`t like it tough !
You must stand uo for yourself to resolve your problem.
2006-12-23 05:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell 2 his moms and dad..
locked your bed room when you are out.
tell you mum about this prob mayb she can help you
2006-12-23 06:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by merisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wao same prob with me
i dont allow now my cousion 2 touch nething........
now i m strict
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2006-12-23 05:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by XYZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋