I found out just a few weeks ago that my fiance may be the father of another womans baby. He and I had a baby in May and I was told by the woman that he supposedly slept with that he cheated on me with her in June, my fiance and myself had yet to move in together. She swears that when the baby is born the dna will show 100% that the baby is my fiance's. My fiance isnt the one who told me about this alleged affair and he still swears up and down he never touched this woman. What should I do? Should I believe this woman or my fiance whom I've been with for almost 2 years?
2006-12-22 20:57:26 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sed theres a dna test ever heard the saying "innocent untill proven guilty" trust ur fiance if it turns out he did leave him because he is NOT worth it
2006-12-22 21:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by wickedly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you run DNA test after the baby is born then?
Tell both of them that DNA test is a brilliant idea. if the woman backs up, she lie. It will be unnerving for man too, so if he doesnt break down and admit it (consider he does cheat on her), then just go on w ur fiance (dont break up yet) until the baby is born and the identity of the baby can be proved
2006-12-22 21:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. Time will tell if the woman is psycho or if the man is lying. Tell him that you want to postpone the wedding until that's all straightened out. He should have no problem with that (although he will probably be disappointed a bit). Tell your fiance that you really need to know the truth and that him telling the truth is more important than what he's done in the past. Good luck!
2006-12-22 21:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the other womans baby arrives then test if the DNA matches ask him y? If he has an valid reason its kool but if not leave him and try to find another guy whos more caring and understanding but still matches what u like............... it might be a bit difficult but dont sweat it things like this happen like 10 times every minute but u need 2 be strong dont let people walk all over u.
2006-12-22 21:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This mess. You can't continue with mess. It will be a problem in whole your life, if your marry this man. I know that guys in this condition mostly are lying. I don't say he lies.
In other hhand, women also mostly in these cconditions are lying too.
IF you want to keep this man, you must answer these questions:
1- Is he has good job?
2- Is he is rich?
3- Is he has very good sex maker?
4- Is he is bery handsome?
5- Is he very pupular?
IF you answer 'Yes' to one of those Questions; many women love to have a man like this.
Women are too complex, she may just want that "You do enjoy this man" even if he is not become hers!
It happened in my life and many other boys that Women with threat of "Child" have tried to engage with us. ANOTHER girl who loves me very much, after I broke with my fiance had Greek with me and said that she acted alot against my ex-fiance!
2006-12-23 01:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sux! Did he know the woman? Either way u should probably wait 4 the DNA test, 'cause if u beleive her over him and the test comes out that he isn't the daddy, u'll b kicking yourself. It's gonna b hard but, good luck.
2006-12-22 21:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Chesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd certainly take a look at a DNA test results,some guys just can't keep there hands of other women.for your own peace of mind find out the truth
2006-12-22 21:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I just heard the Maury van.......
2006-12-22 21:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the woman, dump him. lls
2006-12-22 21:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by charles d 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋