without just telling her and no i don't want to hear about not getting involved with co-workers because i've heard it all before and it's my business whether i do or not.
2006-12-22 20:39:05 · 12 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you don't want to hear it, but I don't think its a great idea. What if you guys get together, then have a bad breakup? You'll still have to see that person every single working day of the year!
Anyways, ask her to join you at lunch, co-workers do that all the time, and its a great way to break the ice.
2006-12-22 20:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually kind of into a girl at work right now. I show my interest for one by just making a point to always say hi when I see her for the first time in a work day. We work in different departments, so it's a little obvious when I go somewhat out of my way to do so whereas it may not be so blunt if we worked next to each other. On top of that I show interest in how things are going with her. Mainly at wok just to not get into her personal life too much while at work. I try to break physical barriers little by little. Like, standing a little closer to her. Not close like awkward close, but close like, "Hey honey, I'm getting close to you... Give me some nonverbal ques that I can pick up on so I know wheather to stay or back off" close. And then after a while I just get blunt. I'm asking her out in a week or so. Hope that helped. I know it's all kind of everyday stuff that could be confused with normal friendliness, but in all reality,, that's just how it is. Good Luck.
2006-12-23 04:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By taking her to cafe or restaurant first. Gradually, let the friendship grow and make some programme to movies or public place. After reading one's interest, she can be proposed.
2006-12-23 04:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch them nearby work at a red light or in the lunchroom, make eye contact and scream "hey baby what church do you be going to?!?" They either find you really funny or just plain crazy, I did do this to my last girlfriend though. She always did look adorable when she would blush.
-NmD!
2006-12-23 04:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since my co- workers are model and i one my self it kinda wierd sometimes for me. i normaly grab there waist and tell them i want to take them out for dinner. it works when they dont get pissed off saying " stop looking down my shirt you perv ! "
2006-12-23 05:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since non-verbal communication generally doesn't work, you are going to have to "tell her" you are interested.
2006-12-23 04:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her than other workers laugh with her even if it aint funny look at her alot
2006-12-23 04:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by wickedly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eyes contact...
2006-12-23 04:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by mada m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile everytime I see her, and if she asks for help, I go and help her.
2006-12-23 05:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out for lunch it's no big thing
2006-12-23 04:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Chev1995 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋