There's this guy and he's really cool but he smokes weed and I don't like drugs at all. He said he'd give it up but I don't know if that's just a crock of sh!t. What's your opinions?
2006-12-22 19:46:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rebecca, we're talking about a date here, not marriage honey lol geez
2006-12-22 20:10:32 · update #1
Here's the deal: You should always - always - assume that things won't change. Because they probably won't.
If drugs are a deal-breaker for you, I'd steer clear of this guy. He's not about to give up smoking pot for you. Especially if he uses habitually (on a regular basis and not just intermittently). So think very carefully about whether you want to proceed.
Assume that Things. Won't. Change.
2006-12-22 19:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run and keep running why would u want a pot head for a boyfriend omg i can tbeleive u actully hads to answert this unlsee ya like to be on welfare and have man that is alway s high and behind bars or someone who will smoke dope with your kids when they turn a certain age c omn get real now..
2006-12-23 03:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by rebecca b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, not at all. Of course, it's a crock and you can't believe a stupid pothead, or consider him worth going out with.
2006-12-23 03:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go into it expecting him to change, only you can decide if it is something that will be worth all the effort, worry and possible drama it may cause in the end. I personally wouldn't see him until he gives it up on his own.
-NmD!
2006-12-23 03:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drug addicted can't give up so easy , he may stop using in your presence and later when you leave , he will keep consuming.
it depeneds on you , if you fall in love with this guy , later you should accept his habbit.
think twice before making your final decision.
wish you luck sis ;)
2006-12-23 03:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Alex Sexy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not gonna happen... a guy will not give up weed for a girl...
2006-12-23 03:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He will not change. You do not like drugs. Do not fool yourself. Move on and do not look back.
2006-12-23 03:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to come see you when he is finished with Mary Jane !
2006-12-23 04:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might lie and influence you. I suggest you shouldn't go out with someone like him.
2006-12-23 03:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by curious~me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him, he says that he will stop, but chances are that this drug could get him hooked to other drugs. you can find yourself something better. good luck
2006-12-23 03:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋