I know a person at school who really live up to the expectations of society and popularity but i saw him in our student gathering area with his one male freind and a bunch of other friends but the one freind i mentioned earlier was standing behind him right up close and i mean bodys preased up against him and his arms were over his sholers and they were holing hands and they were both males i thougt this was strange of him but i have noticed them holding hands over the past couple of weeks and my step mom said yah he is most likely gay but i needed some more apinions so say what you think gay or not gay
2006-12-22 19:15:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
please help if you can
2006-12-22 19:16:58 · update #1
sorry i put this question in th wrong spot
2006-12-22 19:19:31 · update #2
i want to know the answer to this because he is a creepy neighbor and i am curios why he knows so much about me when i have talked to him about 6 times in my life and they were science questions
2006-12-22 19:23:02 · update #3
let put this as clear as possible...straight guys do NOT hold hands. need anymore clarity?
2006-12-22 19:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly , Why does it matter. You're creeped out because you think he's gay so being homophobic you project that he is thereby interested in you .
Real men don't care and are not intimidated by homosexuals , they are secure in their own sexuality. Work on yourself and not your neighbors personal business . I'm sure kids at your school have said nasty untrue things about you , do you want to be the jerk that does that to someone else or are you gonna be the good guy that just drops it ?
2006-12-23 05:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen bonafide straight guys put their hands down each other's pants,I swear...no, your people are not gay. Nobody ever said that you can't come close and hold hands if you aren't lovers. In fact,best friends hold hands even more than lovers.But the people I mentioned are far away from that standard(!).
2006-12-23 03:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsess much? What - you go around all day sniffing out who is gay? Do you think of anything else but who is gay? Says a lot about you.
Besides, what do you care who someone else not you sleeps with? What business is it of yours?
2006-12-23 03:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an opinion? Worry about learning how to spell. It will benefit you greatly in the long run instead of worrying about if someone is gay or not. If he is gay that is his business, not yours.
2006-12-23 03:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's gay!
Macho (real) guys don't hold hands with other guys, nor do they
make such intimate body contact.
Your mom is like most of us who will definately say 'YES',
he is gay!!
2006-12-23 03:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them.. not someone else. They are the only ones who can give you an honest answer. There are ways to ask without being offensive.
2006-12-23 03:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by weareonvacation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of help do you need??? So two guys are holding hands and you think they are a couple?? Ask them....
2006-12-23 03:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are gay, I really don't see why you would care what his sexual preference is. Are you gay? God bless****
2006-12-23 03:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is your friend just simply ask him. When you find out will it change your friendship? I hope not
2006-12-23 03:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋