it started out as friends,one day we were talking about crushes,so i asked this guy who he has a crush on.(btw i have a crush on him) I asked him, but he wouldnt tell me unless i told him who i was crushing on. and i thought , how am i going to tell him that i am crushing on him. after a wile i decided to tell him. in a text i told him hey i like you, i hope this doesnt change anyting betwween us, but now u have to tell me who u are crushing on. he replied ok i lyk jacklyn. so i was heartbroken but then 10 days later he said his true feelings are for me.so from ten on we talked like little lovebirds sharing secret with eacother.usually he would be the one to start conversations.after about 3 months. he texts me less, and now i start the conversations more. i mean he used to rite me poems. but not anymore. instead of texting him everyday and stuff now. i just let it go..i decided not to waste my time on something that isnt working. was tis the rite thing 2 do??? if not, wat can i do???
2006-12-22 18:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by cute_lil_surfer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 13:P im still young but i love him
2006-12-22 18:57:29 · update #1
great answers guys!!:P MERRY CHRISTMAS
2006-12-22 19:02:23 · update #2
Yep, that's the right thing to do. Sounds like he has a crush on someone else, so don't mess with this anymore, find you someone who shares the same feelings as you. Life's too short to waste it. Merry Christmas and Good luck...
2006-12-22 18:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dyan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sending lesser textes do not mean he likes you lesser. He could be held out with something. Ask him if he's been busy lately and advise him that you misses his textes. Do not assumed becos assumptions is the mother of all foul-ups. Treasure the relationship.
2006-12-23 02:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cute, You did the right thing.After reading what you posted, he has found someone else. I know it must hurt alittle,but it was time to move on. You need to find someone who will enjoy you,and your company,and not lose interest in you. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-12-23 02:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's a waste of time. He lied about having feelings for you at first for no reason. Plus, any guy that writes you a poem just needs to be shot. There's no excuse for that cheesy behavior. Be glad you're rid of the wannabe Robert Frost.
2006-12-23 02:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you're right to move on. You sound pretty young, so there's no reason to take this all too seriously, even though it might hurt at the time.
2006-12-23 02:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun think there's a 'correct answer' to your question. however, why don't you approach him and sort things out instead of just 'letting it go'? if you really wants to be with him then perhaps you should put in some effort with him before saying 'this isn't working'
2006-12-23 02:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U did right. very good! ignore him and do your things
2006-12-23 02:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldn't waste your time when he act like that. if he really likes you. he shoul think about your feeling
2006-12-23 03:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing.
2006-12-23 03:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEFORE YOU MAKE ANY DECISIONS ASK HIM DOES HE WANT TO CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP. THAT WAY NO MISUNDERSTANDINGS.
2006-12-23 02:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by GIGI aND PUNKIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋