my bf's reall serious wit me....even i'm kinda...we were in same coll...he s my senior...and now his passed out...his in other state now..still we were in good contact...but now my parents started seein groom for me...but i don wanna go against my parents....becoz they reall loves me....i don't know wot to do....i can't tell to my parents dat i'm in love...do i sacrific my love for my parents...
2006-12-22 18:29:33 · 15 answers · asked by preetha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A marriage is a beginning of a relationship. You cannot ignore your parents at the same time you cannot ignore your love for your bf. First find out how serious he is about accepting you as his wife. That would give you sufficient means of discovering your way ahead. Parents are very important people when you try to form a new relationship. Take them into confidence about your bf after you have gained enough confidence in him.
If your parents are loving enough, they would like to see you happy more than enforcing their own will on you. Check up each and every aspect about your relationship with this guy clearly before you talk to your parents. It will give you good support to uphold your decision. And lastly, best of luck.
2006-12-22 21:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by ramraj v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, whats gonna happen if u share ur feelings with ur parents.. they r nt gonna kill u.. as u said they really love u.. so at least tell them that uve grown up and love has actually started coming over u.. just make ur parents ur friends , dont make them feel as if they r strangers.. just talk with ease and tell everything to them.. bcz if they agree and ur bf gets scared... ull find out whats better for u.. i hope it works for u.. take care.. an all the best..
deeps
2006-12-23 01:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to go against the wishes of your parents, parents will also give respect to your feelings if it does not hurt them and they are assured of your well being with that guy. But you have to tell your parents about your relations.
2006-12-22 22:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur parent they will understand ur feelings
ask ur bf to come at ur home to meet ur parents
if u both r series about ur relationsip then let take this relationship to next level
try convince parents tell them how much u like this guy even say them u will never want to go against them
they r ur parents they ofcourse loves u talk them sweaty
they will understand ur feelings
best of luck bye
god bless you
2006-12-22 20:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to get confused. Instead asking the netizens ask your bf.If he is serious then only u can think u r in love. if he is also confused, then your parents are right. No more aurguments
2006-12-22 20:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by auditorsudhakar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sacrifice your love then your parents are always there to take care of you.
But if you sacrifice your parents as is tradition nowadays, do you have any guarantee that your love will not desert you???
2006-12-22 22:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Flirtatious Wiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to talk to ur parents
if u can't analyse who is important for u
ur love or ur parents who has given birth to u & brought u up at this age
do whatever u fell like doing
or tell him to speak with his parents & they will speak to ur parents
2006-12-22 21:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should teel your parents, atleast let them know, i think they will surely understand your feelings, later it should not happen like this that when they come to know abt your love and they should say that oh he was really good guy u should have told us, so may be regreting later, u should atleast tell them
2006-12-22 21:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by khushi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my dear........your age must be 19 or twenty....over 90 percent of marriages done at early age end in failure....first finish your studies and then get into a job and come out from the shadow of your parents financially....at that time your mind will be more matured....please don't anything haste at this time....i beg you please.....
2006-12-23 01:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
times have changed and perhaps you can explain that to your parents, letting them know how you feel about this current bf. you might be surprised by their reaction.
2006-12-23 09:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋