I hear most people say when you completely stop seeking for someone. That someone unexpectedly comes to you instead. is it true?
2006-12-22 18:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by lemondrops 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god yes.
i'm sorry for the excitement, but i completely gave up on love and lust and the like.
then, this boy and i began to be friends and stuff and he asked me out randomly.
love definitely comes to you when you abandon it. like a lost puppy.
2006-12-22 18:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a man who stopped looking for love because you are too busy making lots of money, then very likely some woman unexpectedly will come to you. Your money will make you attractive to many women.
But if you are a poor man and you stay poor without looking for love, then you can end up being lonely for the rest of your life.
This saying is true for some people and not true for others. It all depends on your circumstances in life and whether these circumstances make you attractive or not attractive to the opposite sex.
2006-12-22 18:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can be true in some cases but from what I have experienced in the past is this you never actually stop looking all you do is live your life day by day while being aware of the possibilities of finding love.
So to summarize my answer it is neither true or false
it all depends on the situation in hand
2006-12-22 18:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by rich19761 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that many times, although I haven't stopped looking. But I will say whenever I met someone that I click with I meet them in the most unexpected places.
2006-12-22 18:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what they really mean, is just stop stressing so much. Once you relax a little and concentrate on making yourself the best person that you can be, that is when someone is sure to come along...and then you'll be ready for them!
2006-12-22 18:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it work for guys? I've stopped looking for love and nothing has found me.
Sadly, because of that, I don't think it's true. I think that, because I'm a guy, I'm expected to make all the moves, to make all the initiative....and frankly, that's what scares me the most.
2006-12-22 18:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, this year I had no intentions of looking for someone. I wanted to focus on my studies and what do you know, I found someone. It just happenend. I told myself before the school year that I was going to stay single and focus on school. But hey, things happen. And I'm glad it did.
2006-12-22 19:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by davi921 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what this means is that if you just enjoy your life and don't stress out about not having anyone it will seem much easier to bare the time until you do find someone.
2006-12-22 18:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by the_sir_z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive love comes when comes but if you try to fine it more then likly wont fine it love has way of just happening. just comes when it wish to. noone knows why but remember this
you our not know by how meany ppl you love but by how meany ppl love you.
so just be your self dont worry love will happen for you when the time is right
2006-12-22 18:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by salems_cherokee_shi_raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it all depends on timing,if your not in the right place at the right time how would anyone see you or become interested in you.but unfortunately the answer to your question I'd have to say not always
2006-12-22 18:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋