I have a bf. and i tell people this but they dont seem to get it. my ex still likes me, and several other guys do too. how do i get them to just leave me alone without going evil on them?
2006-12-22 17:59:16 · 19 answers · asked by Luna W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are accepting their communications by replying. Ask them what part of the reason you are no longer with them don't they understand. Don't wait for an answer...walk away.
You may want to take a look at the possibility you are coming off as flirty and work on making yourself appear nothing more than friendly.
2006-12-22 18:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people want what they can't have.
plus, how do you act toward these other guys? any flirtation what so ever will indicate that these guys have a chance with you. Talk about how happy you are with your boyfriend some more, or if they ask what you've been up to tell them everything you and your beau have been doing. If you make a big deal in front of them when they hit on you that will only make things worse. Best to be like 'welp! sorry, guy! i'm taken. what's on the tube?'
if they go evil on you, leave. they're not worth it.
2006-12-23 02:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by darrahdragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be patient. Some guys just don't know when to give up. The best thing you can do is to tell them that you do not want to date them (because you aren't attracted to them, if that is the case -- NOT because you have a bf; they will wait for you to dump him). After that, just cut off all contact and ignore them. They'll get the hint one of these days. Sorry I couldn't give you a magic code word or something to make them go away without being mean. Good luck!
2006-12-23 02:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward with them, tell them no thank you and that mean it, remember to look inside you as well. I mean, you can't have it both ways. you may be hanging onto them to stroke your own ego which leads them into thinking you are still attracted to them. Boys tend to go in a direction where they get attention, stop giving it to them. Hint, if your current boyfriend is worth the attention then spend 110% of it on him. I guarantee he'll return the favor
2006-12-23 02:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Joanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon you can't get them to stop liking you. that's nature. you can get them to leave you alone, though. if that's what you want.
tell them you have a boyfriend or that you hate them or that your friend really likes them and you need a favor for them to go out with her or something. then there's always telling them you're gay.
or getting one of those orders that means that they have to keep away from you at all times... don't remember what it's called
2006-12-23 02:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fart and burp alot. Do not bathe. Try to work on the arrogance problem. Gain 200 pounds. Shave your head. Stop trimming your long nose and ear hair. Grow out your arm pit hair, and your leg hair. Allow your mustache problem to go ahead and grow back to it's natural status. mention your private parts and how they just won't quit itching.
Good luck with your overly sexy appeal problem with all men.
2006-12-23 02:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by raven dismukes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gain 40 pounds....or lose 40 pounds. You could stop being so smiley and trying to appease them. OR the simple fact that you think and ask such questions tells me that you are a nice and caring person....so stop it!
2006-12-23 02:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mokimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your really REALLY attractive then just don't make direct eye contact with people you walk past or give them the opportunity to talk with you.
Goodluck.
2006-12-23 02:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people like people that are taken
2006-12-23 02:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by Liquidfix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are not available and not to be taken for granted.
2006-12-23 02:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋