ok another question lol do guys really say anything to get u to sleep with them a mean av new this guy for bout 5 years and he says hes always liked me but about 6 months ago he said he loves me he said hes going to get me a ring for xmas and he wants me to wear it and he says he tells all his frends about me but a dont no if in a good way av told him that ive had sex and he was fine with that but then he started talk about sex all the time mostly and wanting phone sex u n o asking what am wearng all the time but over the last 3 months a fell in love with him and a so badly want to believe him btw this is all happened all over the phone he phone me everyday and he tevts me about 30 or more tmes aday depending an what we are talking about and he keeps talking about this girl that likes him but he says he wants me and that he loves me but a dont no if i believe him like today he told me on the phone that this girl gave him an xmas kiss which hurt but i didnt tell him that plz replay xxxx
2006-12-22 17:00:23 · 20 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
soz ran out of space neway he also ask me to ask my friends out for him becausw i wont go out with him which pisses me off but its been 2 years and he still hasent gave up does ths mean anything or is he lying xx thanks
2006-12-22 17:02:27 · update #1
One of the universal truths of life: talk is cheap.
This boy is talking one thing, but acting another. If he really loved you he would not pressure you. How you felt would mean at least as much to him as how he feels (hormonal). The actions you are describing show him as a man who tells you what you want to hear, but doesnt act consistently.
If he receives the kiss of another woman, he isnt commited to you. If he was serious about the ring he wouldnt have let her kiss him, and the way you found out about it would have been as a serious appology and maybe him asking what you suggest to help set boundaries with her. It wasnt.
Talks cheap. If he isnt getting some high from the phone conversations, see how much his talk means. If he bails when he isnt getting that high, he only wanted you for one thing, and it wasnt your heart, and it wasnt love, so good riddance.
Girls dont "fall in love". Really, if he didnt give her signals she interpreted as "green light" she would have never continued pursuing him.
2006-12-23 01:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, well you have something on your hands dont ya? from the way it seems it can go both ways of course, but if he does get you the ring, and if he actually has some proof of what he is telling you, then i would say he is telling the truth, i would try not to talk about sex with him, and if he starts, just blow him off with the sex part and change the topic, and see how he responds to that, if he is okay with it for like lets say a week or two, then he is good to go, but if you see him change a lil bit, well then you got your answer right there, and then go to him, slap him in the face, and call him a perverted rascal....j/k...idk...be creative after that i guess...hehe...well good luck and hope this helps
2006-12-23 01:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, after getting my dictionary out to translate your question. He is using you to get off on. He is using you in order to masturbate. He is just plain using you. Some men can't have or hold a real woman or relationship. They are insecure or just plain unattractive. He is getting his jollies by asking youj for phone sex. If you want to do that, at least earn some money and change to a 0900 number. Honey, drop the creep, have more respect for yourself.
2006-12-23 01:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by shegotlegstwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion when a girl is in turmoil, her head is telling her that the boy is no good or something is wrong... but her heart wants it. We all want what we can't have. When you are on a negative track (feeling pain over the relationship) it never gets better... it just gets more and more dysfunctional. Gotta find a new guy ,lady... (Sorry about that) but don't waste your life feeling the pain!.
2006-12-23 01:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by skipdip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say that he is telling the truth. Guys will do anything to win a girl. i think the reason why he keeps mentioning about this other girl is not really to make you jealous, but to tell that girls are throwing themselves at him, and that if you dump him, you'll miss half of your life. He's a jerk don't fall for him.
btw this is not to be mean or rude, but i suggest you turn your dictionary on on your cellphone. Your sp is out of whack.
happy holidays!
:D
2006-12-23 01:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥meiling♥® 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years?! this guy is dam persistent for sex. Just because he focuses attention on you, it doesnt mean he doesnt have other lady friends you know. I mean he's not in a really close relationship with you at the moment so he's technically not cheating.
2006-12-23 01:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is very immature and it sounds like he does want sex.but then it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous. Tell him that when he talks about other girls it hurts you if he really likes you then he will stop cause he cares about your feelings. if your not comfortable with phone sex then tell him no i dont want to.
2006-12-23 01:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just stringing you,and probably a few other girls,along here. Let him go and find a guy who only wants to be with you.
2006-12-23 01:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this?Can you understand your own question?l have read this 3 times still can not make sense out of it.
Just give him sex the loving part will follow
2006-12-23 01:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by TheMan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
of course he is!!! if hes spending that much time on u then there has to be a reason. I mean if u really like him and he is spending this much time to tell u he likes u then ya
2006-12-23 01:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by johnothon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋