Should i tell my brother that ...?
i am really in love with his girlfriend?? i have confessed to her but all she responded was ," things might have different if had met earlier, do not complicate things," and now she is avoiding me . what is that supposed to mean?
2006-12-22 16:58:11 · 23 answers · asked by Edward H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
curly: i have loved her even before she knew my brother
2006-12-22 17:06:02 · update #1
i mean i saw her around never approached her or get to know her before i found out she is the one that my brother been dating and talking about all the time...
2006-12-22 17:08:02 · update #2
It means get your own Girlfriend and you know it. She is with him and that is that and you should be thankful that at least she has common sense.
2006-12-22 17:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you a wise answer. She's avoiding you because she realizes the truth, that you aren't mature enough to handle this situation. This girl should be off-limits if she's dating a friend, let alone your brother. You owe her an apology and owe your brother the respect of keeping your mouth shut about this. And, even if they break up, there is at least a two year statute of limitations on dating her. Get over it and get a life and don't take a chance of losing a brother and possibly a future sister in law for a lifetime. By dating your brother, you got exposure to her and became infatuated. Time to hike your pants up and be a man. Deal with it.
2006-12-23 01:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jim N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a huge betrayal to go out with your brothers girl. It can compromise your family for a lifetime. I have seen it do that.
That girl is wise. She should avoid you like the plague.
You might ask if its really who she is that attracts you, or that your brother has her. If it were any other girl, but your brothers girl, would you be more attracted? the same? less? Siblings often have jealousy and competition issues that muddy their relationships all throughout their lives.
If its a jealousy thing, not only is this girl preventing bad blood, but she is protecting herself, by going for the guy that loves her and not the guy that wants to use her.
2006-12-23 01:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Curly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even go there if I were you. She said what she said because she was not interested in you but is in your brother. Don't mess things up with your brother for a girl who doesn't have feelings for you. In a few years she will most likely be history for both of you and your relationship with your brother will never be the same. My advice: get over her she's not worth it.
2006-12-23 01:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by erinboberin21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the hell away. What do you think he will say? "Oh, yeah? You feel that way? Well I have had enough of her...go get her, bro! I'm calling to break up right now!" Even if that did happen, it seems as if she wants none of you so the best case scenario is still a dud! As far as her avoiding you and you wondering what it means, it means leave her alone.
2006-12-23 03:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is in love with your brother/plans on staying with him. Since you've already told her how you feel, there is no reason to inform your brother unless you plan on getting with her. Due to the fact that she is staying with him, she does not want to mess up their relationship. I would suggest moving on or if you're going to go after her, make sure she's worth it because this will cause tension between you and your brother...and you may not want that.
2006-12-23 01:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang boy, sounds like you got a big problem. Just remember your brother will always be your brother..But lovers will come and go your whole lifetime. Don't ruin your relationship with your brother over some chick. It ain't worth it, man!
Good luck and *hugs*
Merry Christmas
2006-12-23 01:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go and move on. It is notworth to throw away a a brother for a girl.
2006-12-23 01:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Lost in the Dark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She means she would go for you if it weren't for the fact that she is with your brother. If you love your brother and this girl, let them be happy.
2006-12-23 01:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by california girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u must leave her because if you realy love her then your happiness is in your love's happiness and since she love your brother u shouldnt come between them let the 2 lovers be one.that might feel wrong to u but acc to me this most sensible answer.
i hope ur problem will be solved
good luck
ashish
2006-12-23 02:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why are you going to complicatet things? Should have advanced quicker, now it's rather too late. All you can do is regret it. He's your brother and is happy. Don't ruin their foundation.
2006-12-23 02:57:55 · answer #11 · answered by Noel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋