My friends do and don't like my new boyfriend. Everytime we're all together, they make me look stupied in frount of him or make me blush really bad. They make him mad kinda or make him blush or get anoyed. What should I do?
2006-12-22 16:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell them to back off. If you really like this guy, explain that to them and that they need to lay off you.
2006-12-22 17:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Short and sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK..I think your friends are trying to tell you that they miss you and your company. Now it is completely normal especially with this new guy in the group. So, you would have to ensure that you get your friends and your man to break the ice so that you guys could move on and forward. A good ice-breaker is get everyone together at the local pub and get a shot of vodka each. Skull it down and ensure that the beers are flowing. Initiate conversation that would include all and then let it flow from there. Let the alcohol decide the rest. Its worked for me. My friends and my now husband have never forgotten that night. It was the ice-breaker for me.
2006-12-23 05:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by idfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your boyfriend,you do not need your friends telling you what is good for you.If you two are happy with each other than ignore them since it will be the two of you in that house or bedroom.
Why should you make them happy at your expense?if they are true friends they will stand by you, anywhere you can make new friends anytime
2006-12-23 01:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friends have a reason to not like him, like maybe he has a record of treating girls badly, then that's fair enough. They're just looking out for you. Just tell them to at least try and get along with him for your sake. You could try seeing him without them being there.
If they don't have a reason then maybe their jealous. They can't be true friends.
2006-12-23 06:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Newoliun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a group of friends you feel comfortable around, or plainly ask them to stop messing with you in front of him. If they don't stop, just don't spend so much time around them, they aren't acting like friends so they're not worth your time.
They should not have any effect on your personal relationships really, cut them out of your life if they are a problem.
2006-12-23 03:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by dtlyuol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
them giving you a hard time just shows how much they care about you, oddly enough. just give 'em a heads up before you hang out next time that you don't appreciate that kind of joking at this point, new boyfriend an all, and that you're serious
2006-12-23 01:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by pursuit_of_happyness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont ur friends like ur bf does he treat u badly?
there has to be a reason y if there isnt u need new friends babe
goodluck
2006-12-23 01:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by chookys_ccw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, ignore them. Or, youj can tell them to lay off. You don't do it to them, or do you? I wouldn't call them friends, might be a bit of jealousy creeping in there.
2006-12-23 01:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by shegotlegstwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you man is what you want or if you have some one who knows him better than you ask them or dump your so call freinds or even better when with your man go elsewhere because when you get married all freinds dissapear and you will be with your man fore ever so choose wisley
2006-12-23 04:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by The tagg master 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for a start,get some new friends.but in the meantime see your boyfriend and friends separately.
2006-12-23 01:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋