I have literally dated some of my boyfriends more than once. Some months a part, some years apart. I know alot of girls do this, and maybe it has something to do with their comfort zone, but what the hell? Why? Most of them I am friends with and I just dont know what to think these days. Is it wrong?
2006-12-22 16:49:57 · 25 answers · asked by MissKristen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because girls are stupid and take turns dating the same chumps over and over instead of trying other guys. Good night!
2006-12-22 16:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this kind of relationship there are certain things that you can not say. (You are have to let the two of them work this out) I understand why you said what you said but either his mother or her father should have told her. (You just added more fuel to her fire by doing this) Your boyfriend is going to have to man up and tell her to stop the things that she is doing. SHE can not take any legal rights away from anyone. That is for a court to decide. I would suggest he get legal counsel. Start letting her calls go to voice mail. (you will have a recording of her ranting and the threats that are made) Quit giving her the attention that you are giving her. Don't talk to her when the kids go home. The two of you have a right to some piece. If it's not an emergency (a limb is coming off), stop picking up the phone.
2016-05-23 01:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a certain comfort level involved in your scenario. When a relationship breaks up we tend to draw back into the things that protect us from the hurt involved. Many times it's easier to go back to someone who made us feel good till the pain stops and we can get on with life.Once we have gotten over our hurt,we generally realize that we are getting involved with someone we already know is not right for us. Then the ex become sour ex again and we find someone new.The hope is that eventually we find the guy or girl we can stay with forever.
2006-12-22 16:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happens with guys, ive dated a few girls more than once as well.
my opinion, i think it is just the fact that there are very few people that have a lot of patience in the world today, and instead of working through problems, people will end relationships. but just because the relationship is over doesn't mean the spark is gone too. sometimes you realize that the argument a month (year, what have you) ago was just not worth it, and that the person still makes you happy. i dont think it is wrong, but patience is a virtue...
2006-12-22 16:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mastronaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i just was "dumped" about a month ago with someone i've been with for 3 years, hurts like hell now, and i went back to her and made out with her, and before this we broke up a million times, and got back together, but all together 3 years, now its over for good, but i still want to go back, its the fact i think that there is so much in common and that you have shared so many good times, that you subconsiously hope that some of it is going to happen again, ur mind is trying to re-live the past, and its not gonna happen, cuz there is apparently something so wrong b/w the two people that made them break up in the first place, it'll never go away, but its not wrong to hope for better, thats why girls and GUYS do this...its just cuz u want to hope that things are going to be better, maybe another shot? oh what do i have to lose? that type of thing...or my favorite...OH I MISS HER/HIM! and there you are, right where u left of, and about a week later, ur where u left of last time u broke up with him/her....its human nature, and sometimes sex has a lot to do with it...so...idk...its not wrong, its normal, we ALL do it, and to answer why....well....we're a bunch of horny people that hope for the better?! idk...hope this helps
2006-12-22 16:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we as women pour out so much into a relationship, and when it ends it leaves us emotional. So when the next guy comes around we still haven't purged our self of the old things in past relationships. And so it's a little intimidating to start pouring all of you in something new. Even though the new guy may be better for you. Sooooo I hope that made sense
2006-12-22 16:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Nish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we have become condition to believing that we do not deserve any better than what we have.
If men and women are to change for the better, they need to put their spouse interest ahead of their own.
Hard to do, because a good marriage is always made up of 2 selfish imperfect people.
2006-12-22 16:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you saw some promise in your old boy friend with the exception of maturity. Maturity is not something gained overnight, and other people his age is struck with the same affliction. Going back to them is hopes that he has matured and then you can see if it is enough to keep you interested.
2006-12-22 16:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know who keeps going back with ex-boyfriends?
People on soap operas....that's because there are only a few guys on the show so they keep going back and forth.
Your life isn't a soap opera.....so meet some new faces and get out of that rut.
2006-12-22 16:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, people change, have misunderstandings, come to terms. There's nothing wrong with what you do! And I think comfort zone has a lot to do with it, you're right.
2006-12-22 16:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋