my bf cheated on me twice and i love him with all my heart but he hurted me soo much and he lost my trust almost completely!!! He said he's really sorry and will do anything for me to trust him again but im just confused i mean will it happen again?
2006-12-22 16:48:42 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The saddest part is that it will happen again. He knows you love him enough to take him back twice so he's comfortable with doing it again thinking you'll put up with it. You should end the relationship and find the kind of guy who will be faithful. You deserve to be respected.
2006-12-22 16:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him yes you might love him but he's never going to quit cheating he's just going to do it over and over again and you don't need that it is one to much stress and two really confusing!!! One time of him cheating on you is bad but Twice is to much dump him right away all he is, is a player!! The sooner you break up with him the sooner you can look for someone better or if that's not good enough and you really don't want to break up with him do what he did and cheat yes it feels wrong but he didn't think about it when he went and cheated on you so go for it there is two choices right here!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-12-22 16:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you quit being retarded and dump the moron. You have found out what he is. And once a cheater, always a cheater. So unless you like being hurted get rid of him before he does it again. And in todays times, the cheating isnt the only thing you have to worry about. What if he sleeps with some chick that has an std or aids and then gives it to you. What do you do then. The only person you could blame then is yourself since you do know.
2006-12-22 16:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you should definitely give him a well deserved bare-bottomed spanking. While you're at it, a good squeeze on his balls wouldn't be uncalled for either. If he still wants you after that, say you'll consider it. Take your time in doing so, but don't let him push you one way or the other. If you honestly think it might happen again, save yourself the future heartache and just tell him you're done and thats that. Drag it out if you want because he deserves to be taken along for the ride after what he did to you. There are better guys in the world for you anyway.
2006-12-22 17:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by G A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will happen again... he didnt do it once but twice already. I love my b/f he really does complete my life. He is the first person I want to talk to in the morning, the last person I want to talk to at night and in between that he is the only person I think about. I couldnt imagine ever cheating on him. I think when you really love someone and give them your world that should be all they need. Why be hurt and waste time crying when there is a beautiful man waiting to give you his world and love you forever??
2006-12-22 16:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have been hurt by your cheating bf but you really need to give him the flick!!
no more chances
you gave him his second chance ticket & he blew it
Now you need to respect yourself because he just takes you for a fool ! Don't ever believe his lies anymore
Don't even talk to him apart from saying goodbye
you will be sad for a bit but keep yourself busy & hang out with your friends as much as you can & even join a club if you have to &
in time you will be over him & you will find someone new & someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated
not lied to & cheated on
2006-12-22 17:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Him!!! He will never change, especially since he knows how much you love him and that you will never leave him no matter what...........Try tough love and end it. Once you move on, it will hurt like a ton of bricks, but you'll be glad you made this decision. You don't deserve that kind of crap. He begs for forgiveness and tells you what you want to hear, but it's only an act to get back into your good graces. Are there not more worthy men out there for you??? Of course there is........
2006-12-22 17:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know everyone on here is right about leaving him and he will do it again, and prolly has done it a few times u dont even know about, he is too immature to handle a relationship obviously. Get out b4 u have kids and dont get to finish school, and are poor and on aid while he is now successful and having the time of his life and owes u tons of child support, along w a cpl other ladies.
2006-12-22 16:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Miss B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he cheated once and said what? Now he has cheated twice and he is sorry. I'm sure he is, sorry he got caught. I guess the third time will be the charm, he will tell you he has a baby on the way. God bless****
2006-12-22 16:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The message is loud and clear. DUMP HIM. Loving someone and giving yourself to them entirely does result in a lot of hurt when they abuse your trust. It will hurt for a while, but you will learn to love again in time. Move on. God bless!
2006-12-22 16:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋