Check this out.... i been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now and i cheated on him in November when i had sex with another boy 4x.... but the only reason i kinda did it cuz i felt like maybe he was cheatin on me but he wasn but last week he found out on the streets about what had happen and he was so mad at me that he cried and broke up with me and i told him i was sorry so many times... but then he kept callin me an textin me that he never cred over a girl and that he didnt want to leave me and that he love me so much..... but when i we got back together we discovered that i might be pregnant and my boyfriend knows that he might not be the father.... but my boyfriend said that he will be with me no matter what cuz he know the other boy kinda well and he know what he is about.... and i feel really guilty and i own my boyfriend alot for puttin him through all this..... but really i want to know what should i do with the other boy and my boyfriend and other stuff????
2006-12-22 16:47:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are messed up on several levels. If you don't take care of that pregnancy with an abortion, you will be screwed, and your kid will be screwed because it will have such screwed up parnents, or just one parent.
Next, you say you love him and he loves you blah blah blah, but the fact is, you both cheated on each other. In some ways, you both deserve each other, but you are both royally screwed up if you think you love each other.
You are such a sl*ut for sleeping with the other guy. Your boyfriend is a pu*ssy for putting up with your stupidity. You need to get an abortion and break up with your loser boyfriend.
2006-12-22 16:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your old man done said he would be there no matter what and that the other man was worthless so just have the baby and raise it with your boyfriend in a loving home........ And plz answer this question if you are going to cheat why didn't you use protection to prevent this?
You need to grow up and be an adult because you have a child coming and it doesn;t need the drama you made in it's life...... Give the child your last name on the birth certificate and tell them you do not know the father that way he has no right to the child and from what you have said seems that he will not anyways.....
Good luck with all that and I hope you have a healthy baby
2006-12-23 00:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...that's alot of stuff to deal with. First you need to find out for sure if you're pregnant then you can go from there. You put your boyfriend through a whole lot that he didn't ask for and you have to face reality, if you are pregnant, no matter what he says now, he might not stick by you. Once you blow the trust in a relationship for whatever reason, it's gone and it's never the same. Your boyfriend will NEVER look at you the same again and your relationship will never be the same again. You're going to have to ask yourself if you want to deal with that guilt everyday because you'll see the pain in his face everyday. Good luck!
2006-12-23 00:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let this be lesson to you, DON"T BE STUPID! IF your gonna cheat break up with him save him the pain of your lyin as$ second never assume anything it makes you look even more like and idiot. And last don't sleep with 2 guys unprotected. Now that i've said that, forget about the other guy have no contact with him whatsoever its already had enough for him to trust you as it i. Make it up to your dude by LOVING him and make him feel better about what you did, that is not gonna be easy i can say that
2006-12-23 00:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's the deal... he's just your boyfriend, not your husband, so you didn't cheat. You were just stupid and had unprotected sex with more than one guy, and now you may be bringing a child into this mess.
Stop having sex, with anyone. Pray that you're not pregnant, and vow not to have sex again until you're married. That should clear up a lot of the problems. If you are pregnant, do the kid a favor and put it up for adoption.
2006-12-23 01:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well first off, That was low of you to cheat on your boyfreind, If you care about him, then tell him how it is, admit you made a mistake. And if you like the other guy more, thenn your ex-boyfreind that you like the other guy more, and that it was not going to work out between the two of you. but if you still wanna be with your boyfreind then tell the other guy that it was a mistake what you did, and that you do not want to have something like that happen again. But I advise you to make up your mind, and not juggle with their minds because not only will they get hurt, but in the end you will too. and i hope you learned your lesson!
2006-12-23 00:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first decision should be if you want to keep the baby - if at all your pregnancy is confirmed.
If you are keeping baby , then wait for the DNA to establish the Fatherhood. If it happens to be the November (4x) boy, then your persistent boyfriend will be in a better position to take the decision whether to stick with you.
Perhaps by then he might not - after all he is also thinking hard.
2006-12-23 01:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by bagsprosh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love this boy alot and you want to be with him then i said you and him should talk about it and see what happens and it seems to me that he really loves you i say forget that the other guy and stay with ur bf he seems like someone who will care for you and stand beside u no matter what.
2006-12-23 00:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on your boyfriend and did not even have the decency to protect your self from disease or pregnancy. That is simply pathetic. You need to go and get yourself checked for STD's and make sure this baby is going to be ok. What the heck are you thinking? Use your brain, that is what God gave it to you for. And from your question it is very apparent that you do not need to be anyone mother. God bless you****
2006-12-23 00:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a perfect candidate for Jerry Springer. You have to grow up and realize what a committed adult relationship is. I bet if he cheated on you you'd be royally p*ssed.
2006-12-23 01:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋