hi so my ex-gf broke up with me, 3 weeks ago, cuz of a fight, now i dunno if she misses me or not, we remained friends since that day and still talk on msn everyday until 3 days now that it's christmas time, she's out having a life with her friends and family, and i'm here by myself, cuz i have no family of where i live, we talk less and less but at least once a day. Last night she didn't talk to me all day until 2am in the morning, saying that she just wanted to say good night, does she stil have feeling for me? and now... she msged me earlier saying that we should meet up tmr. i don't know what to do ??? she's very passive and i know she'd never bring up the conversation... does she miss me? want to get back , or just being friendly, should i talk to her tmr...? thanks for the comment
2006-12-22 16:05:34 · 14 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she suggested meeting up tomorrow, and you're still interested in at least being friends, and maybe more... then you should definitely agree to meet up with her.
She wouldn't have asked (especially if she's truly passive) to meet up if she didn't have a reason to ask. Whether its because she misses you or not... you'll find out when you meet up.
I would expect that she does miss you, and regrets the break up over a fight.
In my experience, breaking up was pretty common during the holidays... it was some sort of panic reaction over the holidays... my gf and I would fight, sometimes over nothing, then usually make up (and out) right before xmas and get back together.
I wish you luck.
-dh
2006-12-22 16:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she called you at 2 am in the morning, my guess is OF COURSE SHE WANTS TO GET TOGETHER AGAIN. nobody who is done with their bf is gonna call at 2 am. she doesn't call often cause she's afraid the conversation'll get awkward. she could just be lonely and want to get back, but that'll only last for a while. friendly is not calling at 2am. this is from personal experience and mistake.
2006-12-23 00:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet and talk with her. You can only say how you are feeling so use lots of "I" staements, eg, 'I feel', or 'I am', or 'I'm sorry". Tell her how you feel - be honest. This may be the only opportunity you will have to rectify the situation or discover where you really stand. Whatever the result is, accept it with grace and move on.
2006-12-23 00:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby boy let her know look i was in a relationship for eleven years aftr we broke up i did not tell him how i felt just tried to b friends and act like i was so happy and everything was just fine but now i regret it he has moved on and im dying inside reall dying now he knows that but it to late on my end i have lost my one and only love and if i would have told him how i feel he would have tried again to fix our relationship but now he has a new life
2006-12-23 00:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by haladevelopment2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't know what she is thinking, but seems like there's still room to save this relationship.
how can a girl possibly get over you and feel ok to be just friends within 3 weeks if she truly loved you before? she MAY be holding some hope. so go and seize the opportunity if you want her back. but to me it seems like she is feeling mixed and doesn't know what she wants too.
2006-12-23 00:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her how you feel she will never know unless you tell her and you will never know unless you ask. I think it would be worse to never know what could have been even if she rejects you at least your mind will be at ease.
2006-12-23 00:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by goodone959012000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out ask her.You'll get an answer.It may be one you like or don't like but then at least you will have closer...and your life back ...however it turns out.
2006-12-23 00:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Boriqua P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes using you, if she cared about you, You would not be alone at Christmas...As for me i enjoy being alone at this time,don't like to deal with the phony bullshit...
2006-12-23 00:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants.
2006-12-23 00:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mohay3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go see her tomorrow just think of her as a friend and i do think she misses you! :) good luck and merry christmas!
2006-12-23 00:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by bria<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋